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Problems of a "toddler"

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Space Monkey
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I am a high school student and I am practically a toddler when it comes to interacting with the opposite sex, I have few problems and I think I need advice for the following problems:
-English is not my first language, so I stutter and I am not "witty" or even good at telling jokes in English, but few girls liked my accent.
-I am very frank, like I can't lie, not even a white lie.
-Is it possible to fix bad first impressions?
-Holding a conversation with a girl
 

Mr. Wes

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Hey Stranger,

I suggest you read the insights. "The art of deep diving"
Also you don't need to be funny at all...as long as you deep dive and make your girls feel comfortable.
Give off a sexy vibe.
I know how you feel about the high school thing, I was just graduated last year. It can be hard in a school full of people you see everyday but it is still possible. Try not to think negatively. Also Chase taught me that you do not necessarily have to speak the same language to accomplish a seduction.
Most of it is NON VERBAL communication.
Try making eye movements and facial expressions to get what you want with girls (moving them, kissing them, etc.)

Hmmm..when it comes to being very frank, i suggest turning that into compliments or cold reads.
You know, like when you notice something about her and you can't help but mention it.
You: " ha! When you make that face you look kinda weird..but its also kinda cute"
Perhaps more experienced guys on here can help with what I'm trying to say.

Hope i helped

Wes
 

Penguin

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Hey Stranger,
I can think of two ways to help with the stuttering problem:

1. Talk less, and have the girl do most of the talking. Use non-verbal communication instead of words where appropriate. This will help you come across as a powerful person who exerts little effort.
https://www.girlschase.com/content/nonve ... hout-words

2.Talk slowly with many pauses. This relaxed approach will not only allow you to be seen as powerful, but it will also give you time to plan what you want to say.

Can you give us some more detail about the other problems? Like when do you feel the need to lie? And do you have any examples of when you think you made a bad first impression?
 

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Space Monkey
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Penguin said:
Can you give us some more detail about the other problems? Like when do you feel the need to lie? And do you have any examples of when you think you made a bad first impression?

1-The lying problem is not talking to girls only issue. It is general in my life. I can't recall anything now.

2-As for the first bad impression, I walked to a girl and asked her name, but then I got really nervous, couldn't come up with anything to say, and walked away nodding my head.
 
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