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Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
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Hey guys I'd like some input on my process for my night game, because it hasn't been working as well as I'd want it to. Here it is:

1. Pong/ Dance/Opener (direct or indirect) This can be tough because it puts me in a sort of chasing position. For example, I'll have to ask a girl to dance or to play pong or go up to her and open her. All three of these are difficult. Opening her or playing pong with her will require some conversation, where dancing wouldn't.

2. Move her. This one is pretty simple: move from the dance floor to the foyer. But my biggest problem is when I don't know when to move her or how to separate her from her friends.

3. Deep dive. Simple in theory, tough to execute. This is ideally where I would use chase frames.

4. Get her number

5. Escalate there (if logistics are tough) or take her back to my room

I'd appreciate any input you guys have.
 

Tyme2k

Cro-Magnon Man
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I think your process is too specific. Below is a quick rendition of Ownen's nightly process from RSD, proven method to acheive state and potentially pull. This is a shortened version I took from his video, which I'm not gonna link here. A simple goole search should help you find it or the front page of their site.

1. Open all
2. Minimize time between sets
3. Don't judge yourself
4. have fun
5. short and sweet early, burn to the ground late
6. build on each interaction and pull at the end

My suggestion don't script your interactions, I feel with your process that's exactly what you're trying to do. Try to wing it plow at first until you hook, after you hook move the set and escalate. I usually try to ping around the room early then reopen and hook. It's all about approaching and practicing to find your preference.
 
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Cro-Magnon Man
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Thanks for this man, I had it up on my phone checking it to remember it throughout the night, and it helped a lot.
 

Jay

Cro-Magnon Man
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CCC,

Wouldn't open on the dancefloor man, unless you're at a house party where she can be escalated immediately.

As for pong, I use it as a tool to skip steps in my process mostly. If you walk straight up to a strange girl and ask her to play pong with you at a party and she says yes, there is already some interest there. Building some rapport while playing is pretty easy, and in my experience minimizes the need for conversational bullshit before deep diving after the game or takes it out all together.

As for getting her away from her friends, ask her to dance then say you don't feel like dancing and ask her to come sit and talk for a bit (if she goes for this, she is definitely interested, this is a screening technique centered around misdirection that I use all the time). Asking her to play pong gets her away too, unless her friends follow her, and they usually have better things to do with their night than babysit their friend (*NOTE* if she has friends who are the type that really don't have anything better to do with their night than babysit their most attractive friend, this is where a wingman or two can come into play in a good way. Get one of your boys to distract the less attractive friend/friends so you can remove the attractive one from them, then he can drop them, and you'll already be gone).

Hope this helps,

Jay
 
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