'Proga, tell us about your research...'

[Proga]

I met this girl. We went out on a date. Then she flaked on me and unfriended me on Facebook.
Months passed by.
Then, out of the blue, she sent me an email. She was organizing a meeting and invited me to give a presentation on my research there.
I was still into her but somehow the sweet tone of her email just pissed me off. But before I elaborate on how I screwed this one up, let me ask you:
What would you guys have done in my situation?

 

[ray_zorse]

This is obviously a situation where you must call her out. Not to do so would be weak and beta...

You: hmm. so now you need me, do you?
Her: yes blah blah conference blah blah
You: I see. so, we met up and then you unfriended me on FB, no further use for this guy you thought?
Her: oh no it's not that blahblah
You: what bullshit, now you are organizing some sad-arse conference that no-one wants to attend, "Oh, what about Proga, let's see if he can make up the numbers"
Her: ohh blah blah you feel that way blahblah
You: well it's just basic courtesy to remain in contact with someone if you might need them later... what if I had wanted to contact you in the meantime? You are so lame, really thought I would fall for that, all sweetness and honey now u need the numbers huh...
Her: ohh no blahblah
You: I think you can take your conference and put it in your ass baby... haha cu

Well above sounds a bit bitter but frankly if you are disappointed in her there is no harm in expressing it, since you are no longer trying to get in her pants (and if you are you have no self-respect and will fail since women hate men with no boundaries).
Ray

 

[Proga]

Thanks ray_zorse. What you write above expresses quite well how I felt. But the actual conversation was very short. I didn't want to put too much bitterness into it. That doesn't make me feel better.
By organizing this event she invested a lot into trying to get me back in the friend zone. So I would have liked to hear the blah blah part, to see what lessons can be learned from it.