psychic vampires

[maximus6004]

Im not sure ifbthis is good enough for the advanced boards. I however am having a problem that maybe could be answered here or a post written on it. Franco, I guess put this post wherever it fits best?

I remember the article on psychic vampires, and casanova even has a quote that badically states not to tell.people their faults because itbcould drive them to suicidal thoughts. I have had a couple ex girlfriends who were negative and some.friends and in the post about psychic vampires it was described also how tobdeal with this. What if its a girl you work with and cant get away from it. I finally snapped today after months of ignoring it and just trying to place her somewhere else to stay away but the work load became to great and she just complained complained complained. I snapped and told her she was a whiney complainer and to get away from.me or quit. I feel bad, like maybe there was a better way to handle this situation. I also nptice other woman can be like this but in seduction you can walk away. Where do you draw the fine line with this?

 

[maximus6004]

I did some thinking into this. I do not give this girl what she wants she was super attracted to me. However, the guys at work are chasing her hard and willing to do everything for her. She became spoiled and when I didnt do it for her she would whine complain and get lazy.

Then I started to notice the trend with some of my ex's, the orbiters spoil these girls badly. I know there was a post on her about girlfriends and doing this, but maybe more depth on just in general on how to handle this workout getting mad?

 

[Whizzy]

One thing to remember if you get annoyed at a girl, girls are cute and silly. If she complains just either walk away, ignore her, or just smile like she is nuts. Could you expand on the topic a bit more so I could give more specific advice maximus?

 

[maximus6004]

I work.with a girl who has a crush on me, well did I didnt pursue it on advice from chase. However, all day she wines and.complains about her life and talks about her shitty life and complains about her shitty boyfriend asshole who we all know is in love with. Tried changing the topic many times she goes back to it. Refuses to stop talking about it. So I've just given. Up sit there bored play with my phone stare at the stars that kind of shit I dont know how else to habdke that situation.

 

[Whizzy]

Have you tried to mirror her, take her complaints and double them until she wants nothing to do with you? I know Chase has tried a similar thing before with co-workers, you could also go one step further and pretend like she isn't even there when she starts to complain about things...only thing is make it look like you have better things to do. Heck go make a phone call or take a walk outside if you have to

 

[trashKENNUT]

maximus6004,

I don't know how's your situation but i share few things. Chase has some post and responses that you can take some bits from.

Topic: At my Rope's End

Topic: Pushy people/People needs to feel negative once in a while

Topic: Beautiful Pornstars and Offspring

Chase's article: Emotional Vampirism

Zac

 

[maximus6004]

Copy copy. Ill re check those out thanks for the advice guys. Lol this chick omg, I tell her to shut.up. she thinks I am.joking then talks.more. smdh

 

[Whizzy]

Random thought, are headphones allowed in your office at all?

 

[maximus6004]

No work around aircraft. But I could try it anyways