Pulled out?

[trashKENNUT]

Hi Guys,

Do you guys usually pull out (even with the condom on), or do you use guys stay in, depending on girl? if you feel she someone you want to have around longer? Just asking, though. I know some guys pull out, most go bareback, then put a condom on, which led to some pregnancy among friends of friends, which is relatively low, due to pre-cum. Improper usage is common.

Zac

 

[NarrowJ]

I've always had trouble with condoms, because I'm too large for the regular size and they just bust, but not quite big enough for the large size (they slip off sometimes, and I don't really get much sensation due to the fact that they're somewhat loose on me). So, I usually won't use a condom for those reasons.

I never cum inside a girl unless she's on birth control. I like both, really. There's something really awesome to me about cumming all on a girls chest or on her face or in her mouth (my personal favorite).

 

[Franco]

Zac,

I don't finish inside a girl until I know her period cycle... this has been a recent change. I give myself a 10-day span where I won't finish inside her, and I make sure that those days encompass the entire duration of her period and a bit extra for fluff.

During those 10 days, I always wear a condom, regardless of whether or not she is on birth control. However, outside of those 10 days, I finish inside her, also regardless of whether or not she is on birth control. And sometimes I'll finish somewhere on her body... if she's begging for it.

- Franco

 

[trashKENNUT]

NarrowJ, Franco

I hope the chart helps though. The other day i post a condom article. Anyway, guys, i just don't feel generally save to finish inside her, even with a condom on, although a lot of health experts mention it's good, and pull out after you ejaculate because It gets soft and unsafe.

I wonder what Chase do. and one of the post, a guy got HPV because of some girl. and i read that never pursue sex with a girl you know that you have a gut feeling that it is wrong. I mean yea, things happened, at times, but i guess cleaning oneself thoroughly after going home from a night of sex, is vital if not crucial in having a healthy body.

Zac

 

[Chase]

Zac-

I don't really have the impulse control to pull out - if I'm that close to cumming and I'm inside her, I'm cumming inside her.

On condoms and STDs, I responded pretty in-depth to Garrett's question about this here: Re: The Dangers of Sex - Virgins.

As far as pulling out with a condom still on - not necessary, unless you're breaking a lot of condoms (in which case, buy a bigger condom!). Even if you pump out volumes, condoms are quite good at capturing every ounce of semen you expel - they're balloons, and they inflate as their contents expand.

However, once you ejaculate, it is important that you withdraw and change condoms before having more sex. You can take the time to do some finishing moves as you cum, but don't go and have a whole 'nother round - the condom will slip off your penis with all the extra lubricant inside it now under the heavy friction of a second round of sex.

Chase

 

[trashKENNUT]

Chase,

There was a thought of mine using two condoms. I read the post to Garrett.

Zac

 

[Chase]

Zac-

There was a thought of mine using two condoms.

You'll want to stick to one. Two condoms get friction between the two that increases the risk of a break - you're a lot more likely to end up with broken condoms when you're using two than when you're using one.

Not to mention the fact that you won't feel anything!

Chase

 

[girlsfollow]

Zac,

I don't finish inside a girl until I know her period cycle... this has been a recent change. I give myself a 10-day span where I won't finish inside her, and I make sure that those days encompass the entire duration of her period and a bit extra for fluff.

During those 10 days, I always wear a condom, regardless of whether or not she is on birth control. However, outside of those 10 days, I finish inside her, also regardless of whether or not she is on birth control. And sometimes I'll finish somewhere on her body... if she's begging for it.

- Franco

wasn't quite following you here - you mean the 10 days after the period? But ovulation is on day 14 of the cycle (after the period)! If you are going just by cycles and want to be super safe then you should never come inside her from 5/7 days after the start of her period (sperm can survive inside 7 days) till 2/3 weeks after - this avoids her most fertile phase totally. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ovulation

But as chase said this isnt important if you are using condoms/birth control. This is only as a rough judge of when to be particularly careful when not using a condom - basically with my ex (couldn't handle birth control) I would hardly use a condom and just pull out during the "safe" period. But then during the dangerous period I would always put a condom on after a while and then usually take it off and finish somewhere else. You need to be careful with this because women will be more sexy and if they really like you will subconsciously try and get you to finish inside them during their most fertile period - there are studies which show this!