Pulling!

[douchecookie]

Hey guys im not gonna lie with you Ive had some trouble with pulling recently ever since I moved (I never was too good at it before I moved anyway tho lolol). But I was wondering if anyone knew of any good books that focused on the pulling aspect? I know chase has some articles on it but I was looking for something more in depth?

Thanks

 

[Chase]

Hey DC,

Can you tell us a little about the problems you're facing specifically? e.g., a couple of example pulls gone awry, things that you can't seem to get past, etc.

Chase

 

[douchecookie]

Sure!

Here is an examples from saturday night. I tried not to get any numbers and just focused on pulling.

#1
(15-20 min of conversing and I noticed she kept on staring at me, playing her hair, etc so I decided to try to move her as I just felt that it was time)
12 am and just a heads up but the chick is tipsy
Me: "Hey lets go to another bar its getting too crowded in here"
Her: "I need to stay with my friends"
Me: Slow smile
Her: what? what?
Me: "Lets go. Itll be fun"
Her: "I cant! Im the DD"
Me: The drunk driver? We'll meet up with them before the bars close
her: haha. I cant!
Me: Alrighty so I think ur a cool person and I enjoy talking to you. Im going to go to another bar; so whats it going to be are you going to let me walk away, possibly forever, or are you going to come with?
Her: You havent gotten my number yet. Are you going to ask me for my number.
Me: Ill ask when we get to the other bar
Her: No ask for my number now and we will go out on a date tomorrow.
Me: (slow smile and then I just walk away)

But most of the situations are similar to this... I have been experimenting with dressing less "preppy" when I go out and its still the same result. And I have been trying to find people who have game in wichita for about 3 months but most of them cant even get numbers and have severe approach anxiety. So far with pullin im 2/25...

 

[Franco]

Hey douchecookie,

Are you moving these women short distances prior to actually trying to pull them home?

So for example, have you conversed with them and then said, "hey, let's head over to the bar and grab a drink for a bit."

I find it is much easier to pull them if you've already got some compliance by moving them. Also, not every girl is actually available for a pull based on her own logistics. It sounds like the girl from the previous conversation might have legitimately had an obligation to drive her friends home. I would have just taken her number and immediately moved on to the next attractive girl. =)

- Franco

 

[A Life Loquacious]

yeah, for goodness sakes take the number (unless you actually DO NOT WANT lol)

 

[douchecookie]

Hey douchecookie,

Are you moving these women short distances prior to actually trying to pull them home?

So for example, have you conversed with them and then said, "hey, let's head over to the bar and grab a drink for a bit."

I find it is much easier to pull them if you've already got some compliance by moving them. Also, not every girl is actually available for a pull based on her own logistics. It sounds like the girl from the previous conversation might have legitimately had an obligation to drive her friends home. I would have just taken her number and immediately moved on to the next attractive girl. =)

- Franco

Hey thanks for the response

I wasnt really interested in a phone number because I was just trying to practice pulling that night. But no i didnt move them short distances prior to pulling them home. I think might be my problem. Compliance stacking or whatever that article was.... I kinda forgot about it lol I'll try again this upcoming weekend ill let ya know how it goes.

thanks again!!