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Putting Girls on Hold

Mike&Ikes

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Hey guys, this is my first post, and I’m wondering, how can I put my options on hold without getting friend zoned?
I go to high school so I see the same girls everyday in class, the problem is, I want to keep as many of these girls available to me without being friendzoned. All these girls are friendly to me and I flirt with them but other than that we don’t “know each other” or talk about ourselves. Should I just stop talking to them until I’m ready to make a move, or should I just keep doing what I’m doing, or any other ideas?

-Micah

Also, I couldn’t find a post related to this, but if you know of one please let me know :)
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Basically you have two objectives in mind:
- Sex
- Avoid reputation destroy (creepy) if you screw it up

So, the strategy:
- Screen for compliance. Ask a girl to show her necklace, move with you, etc.
- Screen for investment. Get her to help with your homework, get her to talk about herself, etc.
- Reward her with touch/compliment
- If she comply with you, and invest in you a lot, that’s a romantic interest. Make a move.
- If not, it’s a platonic interest. Just treat her as a friend.
 
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