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Hi Guys,
I am breaking a secret that is not really a secret at all. That is, Successful People won't hang out with you. You know most people complain and say the rich didn't give you money.
It's true. Given an example: Why would that beautiful girl hang out with you?
Honestly, It's substance and style. Yea, Quality Beautiful girls will talk to me. The nicer ones will be polite. The "bitch" ones will dismiss me. But overall, I have to learn what they are about. Why do I say this?
Because I reject friends unconsciously, and you do, too.
We only relate to those who relate or provide value to us. For sure, Successful People will talk to you but they not gonna share the week with you. Same as you with friends. There are friends whom you are polite but aside that there is no substance that you want from them.
When I realize I rejected friends without knowing, and I notice how people reject me, I learn that everyone can meet style. It's very easy once you know how. Everyone can look like Missy Elliot or 50 cent. But to make music half the quality of this stars, not so simple.
Just like a mentor is cool enough to talk to you, If you don't offer substance or motivate him because that's your role as the younger person or the student or friend (student-teacher dynamics),
Then what is to achieve? And have fun with? This is the true art of "us against the world" mentality, in a genuine positive light.
Important as well: Value is relative. Social Styles. Environment as in niches.
Zac
I am breaking a secret that is not really a secret at all. That is, Successful People won't hang out with you. You know most people complain and say the rich didn't give you money.
It's true. Given an example: Why would that beautiful girl hang out with you?
Honestly, It's substance and style. Yea, Quality Beautiful girls will talk to me. The nicer ones will be polite. The "bitch" ones will dismiss me. But overall, I have to learn what they are about. Why do I say this?
Because I reject friends unconsciously, and you do, too.
We only relate to those who relate or provide value to us. For sure, Successful People will talk to you but they not gonna share the week with you. Same as you with friends. There are friends whom you are polite but aside that there is no substance that you want from them.
When I realize I rejected friends without knowing, and I notice how people reject me, I learn that everyone can meet style. It's very easy once you know how. Everyone can look like Missy Elliot or 50 cent. But to make music half the quality of this stars, not so simple.
Just like a mentor is cool enough to talk to you, If you don't offer substance or motivate him because that's your role as the younger person or the student or friend (student-teacher dynamics),
Then what is to achieve? And have fun with? This is the true art of "us against the world" mentality, in a genuine positive light.
Important as well: Value is relative. Social Styles. Environment as in niches.
Zac
