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Hey everyone,
I had a quick question about calibrating when you ask a girl out... but you both are in a situation where you don't want it to be obvious that you're asking her out.
Recently I was chilling in a classroom and charging my laptop, then a cute girl walks in and we start chatting. The conversation and connection/attraction was great and I'm sure if I would've asked her out she would've said yes.
But... by the time I would've asked her, like 4 other girls had entered the classroom. I wasn't in that class, but she was.
What is the best way to maneuver that situation and still get the date/number?
My friend suggested I ask her if she wanted to study (which I COULD do, but we weren't in the same major).
I also could've just not cared and asked her to coffee or whatever.
It's weird. Like I don't care too much if she rejects me, but if other people see, then I get kinda "hmm maybe I'll just sneak my way outta this". It kind of spooks me actually
Appreciate any thoughts or advice.
I had a quick question about calibrating when you ask a girl out... but you both are in a situation where you don't want it to be obvious that you're asking her out.
Recently I was chilling in a classroom and charging my laptop, then a cute girl walks in and we start chatting. The conversation and connection/attraction was great and I'm sure if I would've asked her out she would've said yes.
But... by the time I would've asked her, like 4 other girls had entered the classroom. I wasn't in that class, but she was.
What is the best way to maneuver that situation and still get the date/number?
My friend suggested I ask her if she wanted to study (which I COULD do, but we weren't in the same major).
I also could've just not cared and asked her to coffee or whatever.
It's weird. Like I don't care too much if she rejects me, but if other people see, then I get kinda "hmm maybe I'll just sneak my way outta this". It kind of spooks me actually

Appreciate any thoughts or advice.