Question. Controlling your ejaculation?

[Anonymous]

What I've been experiencing recently is during the "first round" I can last only for around 10-15 minutes.

After a little rest and "round 2" begins I can fuck my girl for a long time (1hr-2hrs) and control my climax really well. Last time we were both too exhausted to continue and I never even finished.

I have read "The multi-orgasmic man" a few weeks back, I found it a fascinating book and I'm still practicing its techniques.

Although I know it's great to have a hot, steamy and dominant quickie it would be great to be able to FULLY control if and when I want to ejaculate, so I can bring her to orgasm and finish at the same time.

My question is: Does anyone have experience with this and how can I go about total control of my ejaculation?

 

[Good Vibes]

What I've been experiencing recently is during the "first round" I can last only for around 10-15 minutes.

After a little rest and "round 2" begins I can fuck my girl for a long time (1hr-2hrs) and control my climax really well. Last time we were both too exhausted to continue and I never even finished.

Exactly the same for me but even though I'm quite fit and muscular I can't or don't care to go for 1-2 hours these days, more like 30 minutes tops for round 2. Actually round 2 is good to give your woman multi orgasms. I usually keep going until she's had enough like 5-8 times for her. My current girls record is 11 but she nearly had a heart attack or so she claims and I think I'm gunna have to buy ear plugs to save my hearing soon.

I have read "The multi-orgasmic man" a few weeks back, I found it a fascinating book and I'm still practicing its techniques......Does anyone have experience with this?

I can't have multi's from sex or BJ's but from wanking myself I can. I've found it's very hard to get a girl to wank me the same way that I know how to get multi's. I'd describe it like a female orgasm cause it's more like a rising and then falling sensation but with a little bit of semen. Usually 1, 2 or 3 times after the 2nd regular male orgasm, just keep rubbing your head after it becomes sensitive and good luck.
If you can achieve this kind of orgasm you might be able to know what it's like for a woman to orgasm and understand why it can be difficult for them to get it.

Although I know it's great to have a hot, steamy and dominant quickie it would be great to be able to FULLY control if and when I want to ejaculate, so I can bring her to orgasm and finish at the same time......how can I go about total control of my ejaculation?

As far as controlling your orgasm, don't ask me, it's not a problem I find personally, just shoot on to her stomach/breasts, clean it off or have a rest and then keep going.

 

[Anonymous]

Thanks Good Vibes.

I have experienced "full body orgasms" but only through self stimulation so have yet to experience it during sex. Something that did happen was I had several micro orgasms (tiny sensations running up my spine to my head) this was when I was fully immersed whilst fucking my girl.

Experience and practice at being able to sense how close I am will help for dropping back the pace a little or changing positions,..

I'm probably putting a tiny bit of pressure on myself to hold back so I'll just let go in future.

~Stevenut

 

[Humay]

The multi-orgasmic man (by mantak chia?) is a brilliant book. All those exercises in there should help you more than anything else.

Just relax into sex, find how aroused you become during sex (remember the four stages of erection?) and when you reach the third stage you must start contracting your PC muscles and taking control. Belly breathing also helps too. It's all in there. The more you practise and do kegels, the better you'll be at this