Question: Setting up a date during daytime - Not good for seduction?

[Sandman]

Hey guys,

I normally set up dates after sunset because it feels like night has a more seductive energy. I did have a couple of day lays but these were usually cold approach - instant date situations. But sometimes the girl is free during the day but has someplace to be in the evening. Or you're free during the day and you want to maybe squeeze two dates in a day.

My question is do results go exponentially up during the night or is it just a skill to be learned and once you learn it there's no difference. Should you set up a date during daytime?

 

[Bboy100]

Yes, night time dates are more productive than day time dates. Especially for quick lays. There are a few exceptions (e.g. taking a women hiking. This gives her lots of stimulus and adventure which she associates with and attributes to you). But most daytime dates are on average, less productive.

Having said that, I would not exclude them entirely. If you think a girl is very likely to flake by the time you take her out on a night time date, then it would be worth doing one during the day if you can make it happen sooner.

For example, if you'v ever done online dating, you'll inevitably have discovered that if you set up a date too far in advance (i.e. longer than three days), she's very likely to flake. The only consistent way to prevent this is to continue to text/talk to her all week until the date comes up. Personally, I don't like doing that. I'm not going to spend my time and effort texting away with a stranger whom I might not even like. So instead, I'll set up a quick informational day time date if I can. Then if i goes well, I'll set up another night time date for later in the week.

 

[Hue]

Bboy makes many good points there.

Setting up a date during daytime can be initially be more difficult to bang, but if you end up pulling off the lay the returns afterwards are better. She'll likely be really attracted to you for not being so conventional in taking her to bed, and probably rationalize her fucking you so readily in the middle of the day in your favor (if you used comfort to not make her feel slutty).

IMO, harder to do, but better for you in the end.

I've had times where a daytime date didn't end in me banging the girl, she had work and it ended in foreplay, and then she booty called me that night because she kept thinking about fucking me. She had obligations and couldn't bang me at that very moment.
Shit depends on the frame and context jafeel?


Hueman