(1) I read in the course Charisma in a bottle that people with similar opinions and also when they agree on similar things they seem more charismatic to each other.
However isn't speaking your mind more attractive even if you disagree? Because won't it seem to the other person that you don't have any opinions of your own if you agree on everything?
This part confuses me as to how this seems like a contradiction. Or there might be some other angle to look at this which you might be aware of.
(2) It was also mentioned that a guy doing the talking 75% of the time will seem more attractive than someone doing listening 75% of the time.
But doesn't this go against deep diving where you listen for most of the time?
What are your thoughts on this?
However isn't speaking your mind more attractive even if you disagree? Because won't it seem to the other person that you don't have any opinions of your own if you agree on everything?
This part confuses me as to how this seems like a contradiction. Or there might be some other angle to look at this which you might be aware of.
(2) It was also mentioned that a guy doing the talking 75% of the time will seem more attractive than someone doing listening 75% of the time.
But doesn't this go against deep diving where you listen for most of the time?
What are your thoughts on this?