Questions

[Bboy100]

A few questions about sex:

1. Masturbation on a night I'm going to have sex. Yay or nay? I know its usually a bad idea on a day/night I'm going out because it kills motivation and sexual energy. But if I'm seeing a girl I've already laid, it might be a good idea because it would help last longer?

2. Can a small condom cause ED? I recently had ed for the first time, and I was using a condom type I wasn't used to. I'm not in the US right now, so they don't sell the same types of condoms. I just bought a random one and hoped it would work for me. As I was putting it on, it felt a bit too tight. I read online that if a condom is too small, it can constrict blood flow which may cause ED. Is this true? Has anyone else had this experience?

3. If a girl starts giving instructions during sex without me asking her to, and they're opposite or contradictory to what's taught on GC, should I ignore them? Ex. I had a girl who was telling me "faster", but if I went faster, I wouldn't be able to keep a rhythm which might actually prevent her from climaxing.

4. I haven't read much about sex on GC. What are some good articles to start with?

 

[Man-O]

3. If a girl starts giving instructions during sex without me asking her to, and they're opposite or contradictory to what's taught on GC, should I ignore them? Ex. I had a girl who was telling me "faster", but if I went faster, I wouldn't be able to keep a rhythm which might actually prevent her from climaxing.

If a girl is giving me gentle instructions I'd usually follow. For example if she motions your hand down to her clit while riding then just start to rub it. If she's asking for you to go faster I'd recommend building up anticipation by dirty talking her to work for it etc.. In the end she'll appreciate you for helping her out without being a whimp.
However if a girl is kind of commanding you, "turn around, lick me". I'd make it a challenge for her, period. It's not masculine to just give in, particularly not in the bed, however I'd give it to her because she'd still know her own body the best, just not right away.

4) adapted missionary and some of ricardus' tips and you're good to go. Most what Chase mentions is coming naturally and a waste of read imo, also some of the others. It's more essays than practical info.
Ricardus' article: "How to be a good lover and give a girl orgasms" is definetly a nice read.