Hi beginner here,
So when I was going to my Instagram the other day I noticed that someone new started following me. I thought nothing of it sometimes new people follow me no big deal. But then she started messaging me out the blue. You know just asking basic questions like how am I doing where I'm from things like that. That kind of raise the red flag I don't know this girl and from the looks of an Instagram she looks like she only has one or two photos. So automatically I think this is a fake account trying to get me into buying some porn site (that has happened to me shitload of times)
Then she started liking my photos and sending me more picture. (Nothing graphic). I'm still 60% sure that this is a fake account so to test her I decided to ask her out. I said hey let's meet this weekend over coffee. She loved her the post I made and says "oh okay".
At this point I'm not sure if this is a fake account, somebody catfishing me, or just gently a random girl that liked my photos and wanted to get to know me more. But the point is I want to get to the bottom of it. Like I said I'm pretty sure this fake account but how do I expose this person.
And let's say for a slight possibility that this is real. Did I do the right thing by trying to move things forward with her. If a girl DMS you and want to make something happen with you what do you do from there? Also on the side now what does it mean when a girl gives you a "oh Okay" type answers because I had a couple of those in the past and I just wanted no how do I take that as?
So when I was going to my Instagram the other day I noticed that someone new started following me. I thought nothing of it sometimes new people follow me no big deal. But then she started messaging me out the blue. You know just asking basic questions like how am I doing where I'm from things like that. That kind of raise the red flag I don't know this girl and from the looks of an Instagram she looks like she only has one or two photos. So automatically I think this is a fake account trying to get me into buying some porn site (that has happened to me shitload of times)
Then she started liking my photos and sending me more picture. (Nothing graphic). I'm still 60% sure that this is a fake account so to test her I decided to ask her out. I said hey let's meet this weekend over coffee. She loved her the post I made and says "oh okay".
At this point I'm not sure if this is a fake account, somebody catfishing me, or just gently a random girl that liked my photos and wanted to get to know me more. But the point is I want to get to the bottom of it. Like I said I'm pretty sure this fake account but how do I expose this person.
And let's say for a slight possibility that this is real. Did I do the right thing by trying to move things forward with her. If a girl DMS you and want to make something happen with you what do you do from there? Also on the side now what does it mean when a girl gives you a "oh Okay" type answers because I had a couple of those in the past and I just wanted no how do I take that as?