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I just returned from a date with what appears to be one of the most intelligent girls i met so far. She is not from town , she is working here and says she has only few friends here. We met on Saturday in a club and i invited her to mini date to a different venue . Tonight she said it was the best move she ever saw (to be honest this is second girl that responded this way and i think that its pure gold , learned it here of course)
She has a car so i agreed that she will pick me up (some investment is always good) , and we went for a pizza. She talked 90% of the time , and told me how that night that we met few guys approached her and they were bragging how they are awesome handball players and how famous they are,i think it was her saying that she loves how i do not talk about myself (god , how long it took me to realize this).
We went to different venue , a pub , for a drink and she continued to talk about her work and family, we kissed and whatnot ,and at some point she asked me if im judgemental , i answered with a firm "no , not at all , i hate judgemental people" . She continued how she does not care about what people think and if they judge her if she sleeps with a guy on first date (i was stunned for a second). She mentioned few times that she has to get up early to go to work , so i got up and said "lets get out of here". We drove to my place and after i kissed her i said "you can not go upstairs with me" (she said at one point that she is stubborn and does the opposite of what people tell her to do) , she smiled and said "doesn't work every time , next time i will come upstairs , have to get up early for work"
i said "ok then , have a great day at work tomorrow, cya" (did not want to look needy , but some persistence would be good, damn )
What i regret a bit is not making a definitive second date place and time , it ended with like "we will think of something in next few days "
Can you tell me what you think , persist or act cool ?
When should i call her to set up a second date ? Do you think it comes of as needy if you call tomorrow to set the date up for same day ?
-JD
She has a car so i agreed that she will pick me up (some investment is always good) , and we went for a pizza. She talked 90% of the time , and told me how that night that we met few guys approached her and they were bragging how they are awesome handball players and how famous they are,i think it was her saying that she loves how i do not talk about myself (god , how long it took me to realize this).
We went to different venue , a pub , for a drink and she continued to talk about her work and family, we kissed and whatnot ,and at some point she asked me if im judgemental , i answered with a firm "no , not at all , i hate judgemental people" . She continued how she does not care about what people think and if they judge her if she sleeps with a guy on first date (i was stunned for a second). She mentioned few times that she has to get up early to go to work , so i got up and said "lets get out of here". We drove to my place and after i kissed her i said "you can not go upstairs with me" (she said at one point that she is stubborn and does the opposite of what people tell her to do) , she smiled and said "doesn't work every time , next time i will come upstairs , have to get up early for work"
i said "ok then , have a great day at work tomorrow, cya" (did not want to look needy , but some persistence would be good, damn )
What i regret a bit is not making a definitive second date place and time , it ended with like "we will think of something in next few days "
Can you tell me what you think , persist or act cool ?
When should i call her to set up a second date ? Do you think it comes of as needy if you call tomorrow to set the date up for same day ?
-JD