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Context: So, this girl ive been friends with for over a year has recently broke up with her 2 year BF (like 10 days ago, she broke up on the 13th). She is completely on rebound imo. Anywho, 3 days ago (sunday) i asked her out, and yah, weve always been close as friends and quite trusting with each other... but on our date she was super flirty with me, like, she would sit next to me, allow me to rap her arm around her, hold hands (and return any kind of affection), rested her head on my shoulder and allowed me to rest mine on hers, feet playing, she would stroke my hands with her fingers... We both already have a bond of trust in that we know quite a lot about each other that many dont.
Thing is, i was hesitant to kiss her. The whole thing went smoothly and she said she would like to see me again, she was super fucking happy like ive never seen her before, but the reason i was hesitant is well, the circumstances of the date did not allow me to properly have sex with her then, and i did not want to jump the gun trying to go to fast only a week after her breakup and fuck things up, since i didnt know if she is still seeing her ex (which she had blocked even on FB), and, low and behold, the following day she tells me shes mega depressed, aperently, she had seen her BF in person, i dont know under what circumstances (did not ask), and whatever the discussion that unfolded, she ended up hitting him.
Anywho, she talks to me a lot, and both her body language when i was with her screams attraction, there is no 'friendzone' signs what so ever (quite the opposite actually). She has her birthday coming up in less than a week as well, and she had planned to spend both new years and christmas with her BF, since she did not really do much except see him.
Point:
While i would like a relationship, ive got no expectations of such things nor is that my goal right now. My goal right now is how best to approach this to get her in bed? Should i wait a bit or go right to it? Should i do it with the holidays coming up in mind (including her BD) or wait for them to pass?
Way i see it, the best way to make her mine is sleeping with her ASAP and get her to forget bout this other guy, but ive got no experience in rebounds or much how they work, i need advice here, please
Context: So, this girl ive been friends with for over a year has recently broke up with her 2 year BF (like 10 days ago, she broke up on the 13th). She is completely on rebound imo. Anywho, 3 days ago (sunday) i asked her out, and yah, weve always been close as friends and quite trusting with each other... but on our date she was super flirty with me, like, she would sit next to me, allow me to rap her arm around her, hold hands (and return any kind of affection), rested her head on my shoulder and allowed me to rest mine on hers, feet playing, she would stroke my hands with her fingers... We both already have a bond of trust in that we know quite a lot about each other that many dont.
Thing is, i was hesitant to kiss her. The whole thing went smoothly and she said she would like to see me again, she was super fucking happy like ive never seen her before, but the reason i was hesitant is well, the circumstances of the date did not allow me to properly have sex with her then, and i did not want to jump the gun trying to go to fast only a week after her breakup and fuck things up, since i didnt know if she is still seeing her ex (which she had blocked even on FB), and, low and behold, the following day she tells me shes mega depressed, aperently, she had seen her BF in person, i dont know under what circumstances (did not ask), and whatever the discussion that unfolded, she ended up hitting him.
Anywho, she talks to me a lot, and both her body language when i was with her screams attraction, there is no 'friendzone' signs what so ever (quite the opposite actually). She has her birthday coming up in less than a week as well, and she had planned to spend both new years and christmas with her BF, since she did not really do much except see him.
Point:
While i would like a relationship, ive got no expectations of such things nor is that my goal right now. My goal right now is how best to approach this to get her in bed? Should i wait a bit or go right to it? Should i do it with the holidays coming up in mind (including her BD) or wait for them to pass?
Way i see it, the best way to make her mine is sleeping with her ASAP and get her to forget bout this other guy, but ive got no experience in rebounds or much how they work, i need advice here, please
