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Do You think it is possible and on what conditions/compromises/expectations to find a serious long term girl/wife who is hard into sharing/watching a boyfriend with another girl?
All Your thoughts on the matter are welcome.
Bare with me, I’ll try and not write a book here. Let me start out by clarifying what I mean by “recruiter GF”:
To me it’s a girl who truly enjoys watching you having sex with another girl or sharing you with another girl. No, her whole life doesn’t circle around bringing you chicks. But given you’ll meet a fair share of pretty girls even if you live only moderately active social life she knows life is short and will not let any opportunities pass. She probes girls for interest and keeps escalating as far as possible. Basically a girl who is into sharing and threesomes and is not waiting for the guy to do all the work. Or... doesn’t mind if the guy does.
Regarding that I have some thoughts and I’d be very happy if you’d share your views on the same topics:
To sleep around has always been my second option (as opposed to LTR). I’d rather have a freak of a GF/wife who gives me the best of both worlds. LTR and some fresh acquaintances as the opportunity presents itself. I know, greedy. But that's the way I am.
I think my current GF(4 years) actually does enjoy watching me fuck someone else in front of her. We’ve had 3 threesomes so far. I know it’s not a lot. But she was quite excited during and after each one. All of them were super sensual and sexy and fun. But it has been quiet on that front lately.
And yes, there is a BUT. There’s a bit of a physical mismatch between me and my GF. No physical spark. But she is extremely reasonable. Has no problem admitting mistakes and apologizing for even remotely shady behaviour (quite rare IMO). Cooks well. But is a bit clingy at times. Bit of a perfectionist. Scary intelligent. Very caring. etc etc. I’m not gonna list all the pros and cons. Suffice to say she is quite awesome but if she is not willing to bring in other girls in the future I would be very much tempted to risk and find someone who is. And I’m getting a feeling she might have done those threesomes hoping that I’d cross them off my wish list. Nothing could be further from the truth!
What I’m trying to understand is what are my odds of finding another one (or 10) who is into threesomes for real? Yes, I know it’s a matter of how much I’m willing to work. I’m just asking for more seasoned artists for their experiences on the matter.
P.S. I’ve done MFM as well. With a past GF. Was a lot of fun. Would do it again. I guess I’m just trying to say I’m not asking for something I’m not willing to give myself.
EDIT: added a 6th question.
Do You think it is possible and on what conditions/compromises/expectations to find a serious long term girl/wife who is hard into sharing/watching a boyfriend with another girl?
All Your thoughts on the matter are welcome.
Bare with me, I’ll try and not write a book here. Let me start out by clarifying what I mean by “recruiter GF”:
To me it’s a girl who truly enjoys watching you having sex with another girl or sharing you with another girl. No, her whole life doesn’t circle around bringing you chicks. But given you’ll meet a fair share of pretty girls even if you live only moderately active social life she knows life is short and will not let any opportunities pass. She probes girls for interest and keeps escalating as far as possible. Basically a girl who is into sharing and threesomes and is not waiting for the guy to do all the work. Or... doesn’t mind if the guy does.
Regarding that I have some thoughts and I’d be very happy if you’d share your views on the same topics:
- I sort of get the feeling that the threesome thing is quite the preselection. Like if she sees another hot chick moaning on your cock she can't help but think more of you. Like once you’ve gotten your GF on the bring-a-plus-one wagon then there is no stopping. Sort of a self-amplifying circle. Unless jealousy of course. Any experiences on this?
- If you count a GF bringing you chicks (or being ok with you being non-apologetically active about it) as a big plus then what are the possible negatives that might usually accompany this behaviour? If any… Do more liberal (or less jealous) girls come with bad tradeoffs?
- What are some behaviours and dynamics affecting her “recruiterness”? I feel like my GF is suspecting my doubts about our relationship and obviously her drive to share me has dropped.
- What are some of the traits You’re absolutely not willing to compromise on even if she is very liberal with threesomes and sharing (given that’s Your thing)?
- Morals. I’ve had a few girls in relationships (with boyfriends/husbands) shown interest. I mean one of them actually said it out - “I’d very much enjoy fucking with you guys“. She is married. Another was sitting on the side of our bed. We were on a trip in a hotel. We 3 were talking about sex and how her boyfriend isn’t willing to go down on her. I would have flat out said: “Do You want to try while my GF watches?”. But based on past experience my GFs morals are quite a bit stricter (meaning touching married/relationship people is a no no).
What’s Your take on this? - Do You think it is ALWAYS the man who absolutely has to make things happen? Even when the girls are into threesomes for sure.
Background: We were visiting a friend abroad with whom we had had fun when she was visiting us (Blowjob from her and she was watching us fucking. It was that time of the month for her so the panties stayed on.) I asked her prior to our visit if she is single at the moment and she was. Just recently. So all parties involved were aware that the conditions for threesomes were there, albeit somewhat faint due to recent breakup of hers. But I'm sure we could have made her feel very sexy. I was sort of testing if my girlfriend takes a lead on it but she was just sort of passive about it. Like why do You tell me You like threesomes if one is basically served to You on a platter and You do nothing...
To sleep around has always been my second option (as opposed to LTR). I’d rather have a freak of a GF/wife who gives me the best of both worlds. LTR and some fresh acquaintances as the opportunity presents itself. I know, greedy. But that's the way I am.
I think my current GF(4 years) actually does enjoy watching me fuck someone else in front of her. We’ve had 3 threesomes so far. I know it’s not a lot. But she was quite excited during and after each one. All of them were super sensual and sexy and fun. But it has been quiet on that front lately.
And yes, there is a BUT. There’s a bit of a physical mismatch between me and my GF. No physical spark. But she is extremely reasonable. Has no problem admitting mistakes and apologizing for even remotely shady behaviour (quite rare IMO). Cooks well. But is a bit clingy at times. Bit of a perfectionist. Scary intelligent. Very caring. etc etc. I’m not gonna list all the pros and cons. Suffice to say she is quite awesome but if she is not willing to bring in other girls in the future I would be very much tempted to risk and find someone who is. And I’m getting a feeling she might have done those threesomes hoping that I’d cross them off my wish list. Nothing could be further from the truth!
What I’m trying to understand is what are my odds of finding another one (or 10) who is into threesomes for real? Yes, I know it’s a matter of how much I’m willing to work. I’m just asking for more seasoned artists for their experiences on the matter.
P.S. I’ve done MFM as well. With a past GF. Was a lot of fun. Would do it again. I guess I’m just trying to say I’m not asking for something I’m not willing to give myself.
EDIT: added a 6th question.
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