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- Aug 13, 2013
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To be honest I haven't kept it as casual as I should have because I thought it could be something, but now I realize my mistake. Well, her Dad caught me sleeping with her, and Afterwards she broke up with me. We got back together and at this point I started making concessions to make her feel more comfortable about our situation (I'll move to your country with you, I'll start getting a master's degree, etc.). Anything that would give her confidence in the fact that we were together. Well, she started analyzing her situation and realized that everything that had happen (she broke up with her horrible boyfriend, her Dad caught her, etc.) has made her life unstable, and she began to friend zone me. I pushed through her friend-zone and got things sexual again, but I've been away for a couple of days and I'm pretty sure she's going back to friend-zoning me.
She's not giving me the "I miss you" messages.
She completely ignores questions through text.
She takes forever to respond
She said maybe we'd meet up and have sex this week....MAYBE!!!!
At this point I know I have to cut her off. I'm pretty sure she's going to get back with her ex-boyfriend because he'll provide stability, but somewhere down the road he'll begin to take her for granted again, and she'll be looking for a fun sexual escape to make her feel crazy and special again. I want to be that guy, but I've already framed myself as a boyfriend!
I know I need to jump ship and go meet new women, but how do I re-frame myself as a sexual-not-boyfriend-material kind of guy before I leave because I'd like to meet up again with her later down the road. I want to leave her with my bad boy image as I make a smooth exit.
It's so much fun to talk about women on here!!
She's not giving me the "I miss you" messages.
She completely ignores questions through text.
She takes forever to respond
She said maybe we'd meet up and have sex this week....MAYBE!!!!
At this point I know I have to cut her off. I'm pretty sure she's going to get back with her ex-boyfriend because he'll provide stability, but somewhere down the road he'll begin to take her for granted again, and she'll be looking for a fun sexual escape to make her feel crazy and special again. I want to be that guy, but I've already framed myself as a boyfriend!
I know I need to jump ship and go meet new women, but how do I re-frame myself as a sexual-not-boyfriend-material kind of guy before I leave because I'd like to meet up again with her later down the road. I want to leave her with my bad boy image as I make a smooth exit.
It's so much fun to talk about women on here!!
