Hi guys. So I need some clarification to what happened in this situation because I can't seem to find the logical reason for it.
I approached a girl on the street, got her number and we started texting. We were texting for 6 days before we went on the first date. Things were going fast and I could feel her becoming "attached" through the messages because she was sending a lot of "I want you", "Cant wait to see you", "You are amazing" messages. Basically, I deducted that she was a shy girl who had very bad experience with guys in the past. I was in the "white knight" position, I chuckled to myself, haha. I'm looking for a relationship and someone to connect with so those emotions fell into me quite easily.
The date was great. She was nervous as hell thr first half an but got relaxed after that. I enjoyed it and I could tell she did too. At the last sip of our beer things started going downhill and let me emhasize the downhill... She grabbed me and we started making out. I could notice she was experienced because she knew how to kiss but it was weird because she seemed so shy and innocent. Long story short, we got to her place and she wanted to have sex... I was disappointed, to be honest, because I know that a girl for a relationship would never do such a thing. But she went on and on about being afraid of me thinking she was too easy and if I'm gonna call her the next day.. Of course I wouldn't say no so we started making out again.
I could feel she was experienced in bringing men home. I have problems with performance anxiety so I immediately knew it was probably gonna happen again and it did.. We were lying naked and I told her I was nervous (to be fair, ber foreplay skills sucked though). She told me that this never happened to her before and that she thinks I'm not attracted to her, a classic one. We went to sleep and I relaxed a bit after 15 minutes and managed to get it up. Got a condom fast and I did her good for 15 minutes. I was about to come and pulled it out fast but then she grabbed it and started stroking it in a really weird way... It was awkward and then it went limp again. She got upset saying that she wants to forget all of this.
The next day she totally ignored my texts. The day after I finally got her to talk and she told me we weren't compatible in bed and that that's it. I was mind blown. This girl was eating out of the palm of my hand and she has a basically trivial reason she is rejecting me. I'm an ENTJ so I flipped. I destroyed her with logic and just nexted her. But I know it was my fault because I was naive and invested too early.
In my opinion, I think I lowered her self-esteem even more because it was low to begin with and she just wanted to run away and forget me as an object of her "low sexual value" (even though that's ridiculous, I just had PA).
What do you guys think? Any conclusion is welcome. Thanks.
I approached a girl on the street, got her number and we started texting. We were texting for 6 days before we went on the first date. Things were going fast and I could feel her becoming "attached" through the messages because she was sending a lot of "I want you", "Cant wait to see you", "You are amazing" messages. Basically, I deducted that she was a shy girl who had very bad experience with guys in the past. I was in the "white knight" position, I chuckled to myself, haha. I'm looking for a relationship and someone to connect with so those emotions fell into me quite easily.
The date was great. She was nervous as hell thr first half an but got relaxed after that. I enjoyed it and I could tell she did too. At the last sip of our beer things started going downhill and let me emhasize the downhill... She grabbed me and we started making out. I could notice she was experienced because she knew how to kiss but it was weird because she seemed so shy and innocent. Long story short, we got to her place and she wanted to have sex... I was disappointed, to be honest, because I know that a girl for a relationship would never do such a thing. But she went on and on about being afraid of me thinking she was too easy and if I'm gonna call her the next day.. Of course I wouldn't say no so we started making out again.
I could feel she was experienced in bringing men home. I have problems with performance anxiety so I immediately knew it was probably gonna happen again and it did.. We were lying naked and I told her I was nervous (to be fair, ber foreplay skills sucked though). She told me that this never happened to her before and that she thinks I'm not attracted to her, a classic one. We went to sleep and I relaxed a bit after 15 minutes and managed to get it up. Got a condom fast and I did her good for 15 minutes. I was about to come and pulled it out fast but then she grabbed it and started stroking it in a really weird way... It was awkward and then it went limp again. She got upset saying that she wants to forget all of this.
The next day she totally ignored my texts. The day after I finally got her to talk and she told me we weren't compatible in bed and that that's it. I was mind blown. This girl was eating out of the palm of my hand and she has a basically trivial reason she is rejecting me. I'm an ENTJ so I flipped. I destroyed her with logic and just nexted her. But I know it was my fault because I was naive and invested too early.
In my opinion, I think I lowered her self-esteem even more because it was low to begin with and she just wanted to run away and forget me as an object of her "low sexual value" (even though that's ridiculous, I just had PA).
What do you guys think? Any conclusion is welcome. Thanks.
