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Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I've been stupid busy and inactive, but I just came across this video and this community was the first thing that popped in my head. I hope some of you find this helpful.

What I learned from 100 days of rejection by Jia Jiang, 15 minutes, pretty funny

It's about rejections in general, but I learned 2 new things I could apply to women:
1. Ask "why?"
2. Address their doubts/concerns

I believe one of the authors here have already written something about #2, but I don't think I've ever used it. I think something like "Why? ...Wait, this is a bit weird huh?" might work great on a girl who is cold/confused/weirded-out/hesitant/etc upon cold approach. You could still end up in a rejection, but it could help let her know you're socially acute and relax her a bit.

The challenges mentioned in the video also sound fun to do lol.
 
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