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Reminding a girl (laid) for her share of payment does it looks cheap? How to do it?

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Hi guys,


A girl agreed to pay me her friend's share for entering a club later.

Amount is not very big but somewhat material. (~30 usd).

Now I have laid this girl and she is a tourist.

So, I am unlikely to see her again.

So I wanted to know should I ask her to transfer me her friends share?

Also, she took my t shirt, (i like that a lot) so should I ask her for it too?
(I told her I like this t shirt when she was taking it)

Won't it look cheap?

Also, how should I go about it?
 

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That's what you get with tourist girls.

I'd keep contact (e.g. ping every now and then, get a feel how she responds) and invite myself over for a weekend vacation.
 

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That's what you get with tourist girls.

I'd keep contact (e.g. ping every now and then, get a feel how she responds) and invite myself over for a weekend vacation.
Different countries. I don't have money to travel.

Only pure arousal, no connection, so idk slim chances of she seeing me again.

(Nor I want to, hook up material only)

Though her ear ring is at my place.

She said she will come to pick it before leaving.

I guess I will tell not to forget my t-shirt.

And I yeah i think I will just ping and say lost my wallet with cash while drunk so I am broke for the month.

To transfer the money.
 

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Never ever lend women money... If you do you will never see the money... Any technique a waste of time, i don't care what anyone says.... Same with family and friends... I do lending for living btw....

That money is gone...
 
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Should I just sell her earing its gold.

For a moment I thought about lieing to her that I dont have it when she checked on me.

Or just refuse to give it until she transfer first.

Though I will look super cheap and autist.

Her earing probably is more costly then the money Ient.

Yeah I went on a date today I just waited until girl paid the bill.

Thinking yeah i might look cheap but i have decided not to spend money now, maybe I lose on pussy but money is worth more and really if girl is into you enough she will rationlize
 

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Should I just sell her earing its gold.

For a moment I thought about lieing to her that I dont have it when she checked on me.

Or just refuse to give it until she transfer first.

Though I will look super cheap and autist.

Her earing probably is more costly then the money Ient.

Yeah I went on a date today I just waited until girl paid the bill.

Thinking yeah i might look cheap but i have decided not to spend money now, maybe I lose on pussy but money is worth more and really if girl is into you enough she will rationlize
brah! are you really worried about $30 bucks, i am the cheapest dude in the forum, and i would not care.... If you don't care about getting laid again with her, bring up the $30 bucks nicely.... And if she does not pay, then you can use the earrings as a pond, but brah!
 

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brah! are you really worried about $30 bucks, i am the cheapest dude in the forum, and i would not care.... If you don't care about getting laid again with her, bring up the $30 bucks nicely.... And if she does not pay, then you can use the earrings as a pond, but brah!
Well you know the more cheap dude now 😂😂

Nd 30 bucks in US and in India means different things. Purchasing Power parity.
 
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Never ever lend women money... If you do you will never see the money... Any technique a waste of time, i don't care what anyone says.... Same with family and friends... I do lending for living btw....

That money is gone...
Seconded.
 

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Damn that girl took my Shirt with her to her country.

that ring is not gold.

Yeah and just to clear up why I paid the money.

Reason was that she was there with her girls.

It was pre lay.

Basically her girls wanted to check that she is heading out with right guy.

That time I did not wanted to look cheap and risk the lay, so paying was a good choice.

I guess I will do it once more if the same situation arise.

Sex with her was worth it.

She is good for a hook up. (Nothing more in came in mind coz she was a tourist)
 

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I just asked her to tell her friends to pay their share. Lets see.

Got pissed off girl was acting non-chalant.
 

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Hi guys,


A girl agreed to pay me her friend's share for entering a club later.

Amount is not very big but somewhat material. (~30 usd).

Now I have laid this girl and she is a tourist.

So, I am unlikely to see her again.

So I wanted to know should I ask her to transfer me her friends share?

Also, she took my t shirt, (i like that a lot) so should I ask her for it too?
(I told her I like this t shirt when she was taking it)

Won't it look cheap?

Also, how should I go about it?

Are you sure she didn't mug you in an alley, help herself to your cock, your wallet, and the shirt off your back, and run off?

If you have stuff you can't afford to lose, don't give it to some random girl. Take this as a lesson.
 

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Damn that girl took my Shirt with her to her country.

that ring is not gold.

Yeah and just to clear up why I paid the money.

Reason was that she was there with her girls.

It was pre lay.

Basically her girls wanted to check that she is heading out with right guy.

That time I did not wanted to look cheap and risk the lay, so paying was a good choice.

I guess I will do it once more if the same situation arise.

Sex with her was worth it.

She is good for a hook up. (Nothing more in came in mind coz she was a tourist)

Unless that shirt is from Def Leppard's Adrenalize tour, nobody cares.
 

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Sometimes girls leave things as an excuse to invite themselves back over.

When she comes back for the earring ask her to bring your t shirt if you want it back that much, can’t help you with the 30$ Lol.
Sometimes girls leave things as an excuse to invite themselves back over.

When she comes back for the earring ask her to bring your t shirt if you want it back that much, can’t help you with th
Yes but no expensive stuff... The expensive stuff or ids women leave like cell, jewelry, cc is accidental... but who knows..
 

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Are you sure she didn't mug you in an alley, help herself to your cock, your wallet, and the shirt off your back, and run off?

If you have stuff you can't afford to lose, don't give it to some random girl. Take this as a lesson.
Ok I will clear up why it made sense to pay money that time.

Also, curious how you guys would have dealt with it.

See we had scheduled date on thurday.

Directly at my roof.

Now she was with her friends, she was egar but her girls just cockbloacked me. ( i will tell later how)

Now friday again she wants to meet.

I again invite her to my rooftop.

Then she says she is with a friend, I should come meet them there and then we will bounce.

It was a 30 min drive for me.

Her reason of meeting me, her friends wanted to make sure I am Ok!

She was a tourist but her friends were local.

So basically she needed their apporoval.

Now, after some back and forth.

She agreed to come near a club in a area close to me.

When I reach there, she, her other 2 friends are standing there.

Now here girls can get free entry in club but guys can't.

So she tells me about the situation.

That I need to pay cover.

I try to reason with bouncer a bit to skip the cover.

I don't over do this cause I will cheap.

This is nice upscale area nothing cheap, no dark alleys etc.

So I simply pay the cover.

Now the things is she says one more friend will come in some time.

Says if I will pay the cover so we don't need to wait outside. She will pay me later.

Pure convinience.

So I do again, don't want to look cheap.

Now we go inside and everyone order drinks and use that cover.

I used 50% and they use 50%.

I remain chill.

Make convos with her friends.

They find me cool.

After 45 mins of chilling drinks and smoke.

They excuse themselve and I leave with my girl to my place.

So no scam.

We have good 2 hours of sex.

(Received most passionate kiss)

Then she needs to attend some fest so her friend pick her up.

We are sweaty from sex.

So she takes my T. Promise to return it.

Now her earring were left by accident or she wanted to meet one more time idk.

(I assume its accident)

But point is it most logical decision to pay at that time.

No need to risk the lay, by looking cheap.
 
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