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REPORT: My first approach/Fundamentals?

Mr.SocialAcceptableHarem

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Okay so this has been a few weeks coming now. After weeks of talking to strangers and going out of my way to be social, I finally approached a girl. Actually kinda two (maybe 3, I don't count indirect openers as cold approaches). It went better than I thought, I guess giving a compliment can never go wrong. Anyways, she ended the conversation saying something like "It was great meeting you, maybe I'll see you around campus someday". I feel like now if I've done it once, I can do it twice. The meat method proposed by Hector Castillo worked really well. Right now I'm not really focused on quality of approaches but quantity. One of my questions is: If I have a small college campus, can I do all of my approaches on it without gaining a reputation? Im pretty sure I'm somewhere in between creepy and smooth with these girls I've approached, so my future reputation may not be very good if I'm not good at approaches yet. That brings me to my next topic...

FUNDAMENTALS: I've realized fundamentals will be really important in improving my game (and therefore reputation) but I don't really know how to practice. So, how do I practice my gestures, body language, eye contact, facial expressions etc. ? My best guess is watch others irl and watch a bunch of Sean Connery James Bond movies and study 007's behavior, then try to replicate. I've read on Girls chase Sean Connery falls into the Father archetype. I don't know if I want to be the father archetype, could someone please fill me in on the other options and there Hollywood examples?

I'm excited to approach more girls, best of luck to all other seducers as well!
 
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