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response for "I have a BF" (nightgame)

Peleus

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Saw two very hot girls dancing last night, approached and complimented the both of them on their halloween outfits. They took the compliment well and I started dancing with them for a bit. Then out of the blue one of the girls tells me that she has a BF. I was not escalating yet, just dancing and having fun. In the moment, I gave the response "That's what they all say" in a smooth manner with a slight smile.

Realized after that this was the wrong thing to say in this scenario. I gave into their frame that I was eventually going to escalate. And i come off as too much of a player. Looking back, it was socially retarded of HER to bring up a BF before I even escalated.

I thought of a humorous/clever response to use next time. This would be best to use when you have not made your intentions clear that you want to sleep with a girl and she still says she has a BF.

Her: sorry I have a BF

Me: Congratulations!! I don't have a BF. (Pause). I like Pussy :sneaky:

This
1. pokes fun at her for saying she has a BF before she even knows I want to get with her
2. sexualizes the the interaction and boosts sexual tension
3. Will get her out of auto pilot

-Peleus
 

KJ Francis

Cro-Magnon Man
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"How's that going for you?"
-Tony Depp

This is day game context where you're in a more conversational context than nightgame though. He'll ask how long its been, which is sometimes not that long. Then he'll say well that's not really a boyfriend, you guys are just dating. Or something like that.

Another one I've heard is "cool, me too"... And keep going like nothing happened, so the fault is on you if she slips and falls on your cock.
 

Glow

Tribal Elder
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"Want another one?" ignore and continue. ( my standard response - makes them laugh from your boldness/non caring)
"Nice, I have a gold fish" ignore and continue
"Ah, what a shame.. you seem really cool (with a slight dissapointment, displays genuine intent for her) - continue running game more indirectly" (This one has worked for me MANY times with them then hitting on me later, providing me clear opportunities as they know they need to make it clear for me when they then want it)

Its a standard auto girl response. Put absolutely nothing into it.
 

Skills

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you say AWESOME! very happy and exited like the best news you ever heard in your life, then you say "he can cook us breakfast in the morning" then cont. normally with the seduction..

however read this post, which is to first see what category she belongs too:

 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

James D

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It was in day game tho, a chick I met in a bookstore told me she had a bf, and I replied saying I've got a boyfriend too.

She laughed hard.

I did the same thing when she brought it up during escalation to sex.
 

Atlas IV

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Gunwitch has a playful response to this which is similar to @Skills one above:

"That's awesome! He can cook us breakfast. But he'd better not fuck up the eggs or I'll have to whip him with my belt!"

He says it not only makes her laugh, but also sets a dominant frame by making her imagine you whipping her boyfriend.

Haven't tested it myself, but sounds like a fun one to try.
 
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