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- Jul 4, 2015
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Saw two very hot girls dancing last night, approached and complimented the both of them on their halloween outfits. They took the compliment well and I started dancing with them for a bit. Then out of the blue one of the girls tells me that she has a BF. I was not escalating yet, just dancing and having fun. In the moment, I gave the response "That's what they all say" in a smooth manner with a slight smile.
Realized after that this was the wrong thing to say in this scenario. I gave into their frame that I was eventually going to escalate. And i come off as too much of a player. Looking back, it was socially retarded of HER to bring up a BF before I even escalated.
I thought of a humorous/clever response to use next time. This would be best to use when you have not made your intentions clear that you want to sleep with a girl and she still says she has a BF.
Her: sorry I have a BF
Me: Congratulations!! I don't have a BF. (Pause). I like Pussy
This
1. pokes fun at her for saying she has a BF before she even knows I want to get with her
2. sexualizes the the interaction and boosts sexual tension
3. Will get her out of auto pilot
-Peleus
Realized after that this was the wrong thing to say in this scenario. I gave into their frame that I was eventually going to escalate. And i come off as too much of a player. Looking back, it was socially retarded of HER to bring up a BF before I even escalated.
I thought of a humorous/clever response to use next time. This would be best to use when you have not made your intentions clear that you want to sleep with a girl and she still says she has a BF.
Her: sorry I have a BF
Me: Congratulations!! I don't have a BF. (Pause). I like Pussy
This
1. pokes fun at her for saying she has a BF before she even knows I want to get with her
2. sexualizes the the interaction and boosts sexual tension
3. Will get her out of auto pilot
-Peleus