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Dudes! I've just recently posted a LR because I think it gives a good background to this one. I met this girl on Saturday and she looked and acted a lot like the girl from the previous post. She responded to the same teasing style and physical touch but this was done in reverse.
Title - I think it's witty :')
I want to clarify the title because the content of this LR may seem like I'm still caught up by a previous lover. I just find the title funny from a personal perspective, I found the foreshadowing very intriguing for social dynamics which I'll reference in this report. For context the previous lover was a sci-fi nerd but she looked like the red head in the recent Jumanji films, and the new girl loves star wars.
Wardrobe / Venue / Meeting
I was wearing a tight fitting black tshirt, black skinny jeans, converse shoes and brown leather and wooden bracelets on one wrist for accessories. I was at a club with two small floors. One floor is a lounge and closes early, I stayed on the main floor which is dark with flashing lights and smoke machines. The energy of the place changes as numbers grow and drop. I went to the pre bar with the group, the previous lover came into this venue 10 minutes before we left so I knew she'd be going to the club. I'm not a fan of stuff like this, I feel I can't strike out in front of ex lovers haha.
We move on to the club, we're a group of 5 dudes and 1 girl on the dancefloor and I know I'll have to break away later on if I want to seduce. I hadn't seen one of the lads in years so we were just out to have fun. I get a gut feeling to look to my right, I look over to see this really cute short girl, with long brown hair, curled and dyed blonde at the bottom, wearing a blue blouse tied under her boobs and a tight black skirt looking over her shoulder at me. Our eyes meet and I give her a knowing smile, she smiles back, I could feel the sexual tension between us. This night was no longer about having fun with my friends, I had to meet this girl.
We look at each other and smiling a couple times, she's with a big group so I don't want to approach just yet, I know a dude standing near her so I go over and start talking to him. She looked over her shoulder again and couldn't see me after I had moved, she then noticed I moved closer and looked at me again with a smile. It was on. Another dude I know was friends with her friends and came over to talk to them, a cool song came on and we started vibing. Integrating the group I touched her forearm, run my hand down to her hand before taking her hand and twirling her. We danced to the song, the next song hit which provided a huge its on moment, the line said "kiss me you animal", the set up was to good not to, I pulled her in and kissed her. She didn't want it to end.
Social Dynamic
There was a lot of social dynamics at play with this, I had social proof and I was friends with the dude that knew her group which I used as a plausible deniable social way to meet her. This came into play later on in the night. Before I met this girl, my ex lover turned up at the club. She originally stood far away from me, but when I moved closer to the new girl she came over and stood next to me. I think at one point she gave a little wave, but I was deep into conversation with my friend and didn't realise. Maybe she didn't, who knows. I found it interesting that she popped up near me with a little jealousy.
Interaction / Attention Fractionation
After dancing with her a little she went outside with some of her friends and the dude that I know, I let her go and kept with the girls that kept behind. I danced with them both, one of them clearly wanted to kiss, I kept building the sexual tension when the girl came back and was a little jealous of the girls I was with.
I left the group and went back to my friends, she kept looking over and coming over dancing near me. I fractionated my attention with her occasionally dancing with her then moving my attention on, she kept checking where I was and trying to get my attention. We made eye contact and I could signal for her hand with my fingers and she'd give me her hand and come and dance. She was very compliant and very much in our little bubble. The push pull going on had her chasing hard, I thought about extracting but she kept returning to her group, I knew I could wait.
Pre Selection / Jealousy / Girls Girls Girls
She was really busy with her group at one point, I started dancing with a girl who's a regular at the club, I'm friends with her friends and we get on well. We had about a foot of space between us, my target was very jealous and came over putting herself between us to gain my attention. My friend went back to her friends and I transitioned back to my target.
My group started to dwindle as the night gone on and there was only one dude left. While my attention is with my target my ex lover comes over and starts talking to the dude I was with. No offence to him but his posture is terrible, he wasn't dressed very well and had no right being approached by a girl this hot. I noticed she glanced at me a couple of times while talking to him. While dancing with my target we integrate with 2 of her girlfriends. I start dancing and twirling my target and one of her friends. The third one mock made a scene about being left out, I transition all my attention to this one to include her and make up for not having 3 hands to twirl all three of them at the same time Haha. This won over all three girls.
Foreshadowing Reference
The night I seduced my ex lover (FWB) I done the same thing with her and her best friend. A dude tried to pick up her friend and I had an impromptu wing man but he was terrible and almost destroyed the set. I won it back by working both girls, this stopped my target being worried about her friend with a creepy dude.
The ex lover talking to the dude in my group noticing my attention was now with this group of girls walked away from the dude back to her friend and they left shortly after. She's seen this happen before first hand.
Teasing / Extraction
I won over the girls in my target's group, the dude I knew was leaving and wished us a good night, the girls were happy to leave us to it. They told us they were leaving, looking at her:
Flux: What are your plans?
Girl: I dunno, I'm having fun here. What are your plans?
Flux: I'll be going home at some point
Girl: Going home?
Flux: Yeah
Girl: (looking)
Flux: Where abouts do you live?
Girl: POSH AREA
Flux: Oh you're one of them, I thought so
Girl: (mock offended) how? Where are you from?
Flux: You give of that vibe
Girl: (mock offended) I'm not posh! I do not
Flux: I didn't say anything (playful smirk)
Girl: Seriously though do I give of that vibe? And where are you from?
Flux: a little (playful smirk), I'm going to PLACE NAME, wanna come with? I can drop you off
Girl: (nods enthusiastically)
We head to the car, she asks if I'm not too drunk to drive which I tell her I'm T-Total. We talk a little more where she keeps living up to the POSH AREA stereotype to which I tease her for relentlessly. She'd tell me to shush, playfully hit me but was loving it. Ironically she'd try to qualify herself and explain how she's not like that but would then reveal something else matching the posh stereotype.
I drove home, one hand on her thigh driving one handed except to change gears. It was a combination of deep diving and teasing on the short 10 minute drive home. We get back to my place, I have her take her shoes off and ask if she wants a drink or anything to help her settle. She said she was okay, I pull her in for a kiss before guiding her up the stairs and finish the seduction
Title - I think it's witty :')
I want to clarify the title because the content of this LR may seem like I'm still caught up by a previous lover. I just find the title funny from a personal perspective, I found the foreshadowing very intriguing for social dynamics which I'll reference in this report. For context the previous lover was a sci-fi nerd but she looked like the red head in the recent Jumanji films, and the new girl loves star wars.
Wardrobe / Venue / Meeting
I was wearing a tight fitting black tshirt, black skinny jeans, converse shoes and brown leather and wooden bracelets on one wrist for accessories. I was at a club with two small floors. One floor is a lounge and closes early, I stayed on the main floor which is dark with flashing lights and smoke machines. The energy of the place changes as numbers grow and drop. I went to the pre bar with the group, the previous lover came into this venue 10 minutes before we left so I knew she'd be going to the club. I'm not a fan of stuff like this, I feel I can't strike out in front of ex lovers haha.
We move on to the club, we're a group of 5 dudes and 1 girl on the dancefloor and I know I'll have to break away later on if I want to seduce. I hadn't seen one of the lads in years so we were just out to have fun. I get a gut feeling to look to my right, I look over to see this really cute short girl, with long brown hair, curled and dyed blonde at the bottom, wearing a blue blouse tied under her boobs and a tight black skirt looking over her shoulder at me. Our eyes meet and I give her a knowing smile, she smiles back, I could feel the sexual tension between us. This night was no longer about having fun with my friends, I had to meet this girl.
We look at each other and smiling a couple times, she's with a big group so I don't want to approach just yet, I know a dude standing near her so I go over and start talking to him. She looked over her shoulder again and couldn't see me after I had moved, she then noticed I moved closer and looked at me again with a smile. It was on. Another dude I know was friends with her friends and came over to talk to them, a cool song came on and we started vibing. Integrating the group I touched her forearm, run my hand down to her hand before taking her hand and twirling her. We danced to the song, the next song hit which provided a huge its on moment, the line said "kiss me you animal", the set up was to good not to, I pulled her in and kissed her. She didn't want it to end.
Social Dynamic
There was a lot of social dynamics at play with this, I had social proof and I was friends with the dude that knew her group which I used as a plausible deniable social way to meet her. This came into play later on in the night. Before I met this girl, my ex lover turned up at the club. She originally stood far away from me, but when I moved closer to the new girl she came over and stood next to me. I think at one point she gave a little wave, but I was deep into conversation with my friend and didn't realise. Maybe she didn't, who knows. I found it interesting that she popped up near me with a little jealousy.
Interaction / Attention Fractionation
After dancing with her a little she went outside with some of her friends and the dude that I know, I let her go and kept with the girls that kept behind. I danced with them both, one of them clearly wanted to kiss, I kept building the sexual tension when the girl came back and was a little jealous of the girls I was with.
I left the group and went back to my friends, she kept looking over and coming over dancing near me. I fractionated my attention with her occasionally dancing with her then moving my attention on, she kept checking where I was and trying to get my attention. We made eye contact and I could signal for her hand with my fingers and she'd give me her hand and come and dance. She was very compliant and very much in our little bubble. The push pull going on had her chasing hard, I thought about extracting but she kept returning to her group, I knew I could wait.
Pre Selection / Jealousy / Girls Girls Girls
She was really busy with her group at one point, I started dancing with a girl who's a regular at the club, I'm friends with her friends and we get on well. We had about a foot of space between us, my target was very jealous and came over putting herself between us to gain my attention. My friend went back to her friends and I transitioned back to my target.
My group started to dwindle as the night gone on and there was only one dude left. While my attention is with my target my ex lover comes over and starts talking to the dude I was with. No offence to him but his posture is terrible, he wasn't dressed very well and had no right being approached by a girl this hot. I noticed she glanced at me a couple of times while talking to him. While dancing with my target we integrate with 2 of her girlfriends. I start dancing and twirling my target and one of her friends. The third one mock made a scene about being left out, I transition all my attention to this one to include her and make up for not having 3 hands to twirl all three of them at the same time Haha. This won over all three girls.
Foreshadowing Reference
The night I seduced my ex lover (FWB) I done the same thing with her and her best friend. A dude tried to pick up her friend and I had an impromptu wing man but he was terrible and almost destroyed the set. I won it back by working both girls, this stopped my target being worried about her friend with a creepy dude.
The ex lover talking to the dude in my group noticing my attention was now with this group of girls walked away from the dude back to her friend and they left shortly after. She's seen this happen before first hand.
Teasing / Extraction
I won over the girls in my target's group, the dude I knew was leaving and wished us a good night, the girls were happy to leave us to it. They told us they were leaving, looking at her:
Flux: What are your plans?
Girl: I dunno, I'm having fun here. What are your plans?
Flux: I'll be going home at some point
Girl: Going home?
Flux: Yeah
Girl: (looking)
Flux: Where abouts do you live?
Girl: POSH AREA
Flux: Oh you're one of them, I thought so
Girl: (mock offended) how? Where are you from?
Flux: You give of that vibe
Girl: (mock offended) I'm not posh! I do not
Flux: I didn't say anything (playful smirk)
Girl: Seriously though do I give of that vibe? And where are you from?
Flux: a little (playful smirk), I'm going to PLACE NAME, wanna come with? I can drop you off
Girl: (nods enthusiastically)
We head to the car, she asks if I'm not too drunk to drive which I tell her I'm T-Total. We talk a little more where she keeps living up to the POSH AREA stereotype to which I tease her for relentlessly. She'd tell me to shush, playfully hit me but was loving it. Ironically she'd try to qualify herself and explain how she's not like that but would then reveal something else matching the posh stereotype.
I drove home, one hand on her thigh driving one handed except to change gears. It was a combination of deep diving and teasing on the short 10 minute drive home. We get back to my place, I have her take her shoes off and ask if she wants a drink or anything to help her settle. She said she was okay, I pull her in for a kiss before guiding her up the stairs and finish the seduction
