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Rooting is a strategy that will improve your daygame approaches by tenfold.
When you're in conversation with a woman you just met, whether it be on the street, in a cafe, in a mall, anywhere, she's going to be thinking:
The quicker you root the interaction by answering these questions for her, the better. It will help her hook and become more comfortable with you. Here's how to address each of these concerns:
Why did he approach me?
This is an easy one - it's communicated through your opener. You found her adorable, or you were interested in an article of clothing she had on. The more specific the opener, the better.
Why is he continuing to talk to me?
After you've told her why you approached her, you need to give a reason for why you wanna keep chit-chatting. You are trying to have a conversation, but she thinks your intent was to give her a compliment and leave. It's a huge mismatch in frames that causes her to feel discomfort and confusion.
You can answer this question for her by directly communicating your intent to keep talking. When she gives you investment, you communicate that she's different than most people you meet, and thus you're interested in finding out more.
how long is he gonna be here for? has he been following me around? is he just walking around talking to everyone like this?
These can easily be communicated in your opener as well. You can tell her you only got two seconds to talk to her because you're on your way to the bank/pet store/wherever
Example
Here's what it looks like:
Some results of not rooting
If you're not rooting enough - especially not rooting why you want to keep talking to her - you will find yourself hitting a wall when you try to get deeper in conversation with a girl. She's going to resist investing, cuz she's confused about why you even want to know about her. You will also encounter suspicion from girls. For example, I was gaming at a university and rooted an approach by saying i was on my way to the library before i saw her. But later on, she started questioning me: "why are you going to the library? You don't have any books or pens or anything."
Have fun implementing this strategy and let me know how it goes
When you're in conversation with a woman you just met, whether it be on the street, in a cafe, in a mall, anywhere, she's going to be thinking:
The quicker you root the interaction by answering these questions for her, the better. It will help her hook and become more comfortable with you. Here's how to address each of these concerns:
Why did he approach me?
This is an easy one - it's communicated through your opener. You found her adorable, or you were interested in an article of clothing she had on. The more specific the opener, the better.
Why is he continuing to talk to me?
After you've told her why you approached her, you need to give a reason for why you wanna keep chit-chatting. You are trying to have a conversation, but she thinks your intent was to give her a compliment and leave. It's a huge mismatch in frames that causes her to feel discomfort and confusion.
You can answer this question for her by directly communicating your intent to keep talking. When she gives you investment, you communicate that she's different than most people you meet, and thus you're interested in finding out more.
how long is he gonna be here for? has he been following me around? is he just walking around talking to everyone like this?
These can easily be communicated in your opener as well. You can tell her you only got two seconds to talk to her because you're on your way to the bank/pet store/wherever
Example
Here's what it looks like:
Some results of not rooting
If you're not rooting enough - especially not rooting why you want to keep talking to her - you will find yourself hitting a wall when you try to get deeper in conversation with a girl. She's going to resist investing, cuz she's confused about why you even want to know about her. You will also encounter suspicion from girls. For example, I was gaming at a university and rooted an approach by saying i was on my way to the library before i saw her. But later on, she started questioning me: "why are you going to the library? You don't have any books or pens or anything."
Have fun implementing this strategy and let me know how it goes
