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Hello
I figured this should go in off topic. I've joined the forum quite some time now but I am rarely active due to other obligations outside of dating. In fact, due to other pressing issues, I've put girls on the back burner. So I haven't posted in a while since this forum is called "skilled seducer".
It's like if I want a double beef burger, I don't think to show up to a Chinese restaurant, I go to Burger King or other fast food joint that sells burgers.
So before I get too deep in the weeds, I want to understand how broad of conversations can occur on this forum please? Here are some things that I'm currently going through which are partially social related, but also branches a bit into other realms.
1. Making male friends and keeping them ( I want to discuss this, but again the forum seems to be to get girls to chase you)
2. Social dynamics between myself and coworkers at work both male and female ( kind of in relation to getting better with communicating with everyone in general, but some of the topics may involve me going a bit into
a. Legal stuff (nothing confidential about the persons will ever be shared obviously, but if lets say I mentioned a female manager decided to provide a written documentation and I believe that is unfair... then I go into the dynamics a bit to see if this female is biased based on her body language, tone, or if a male manager takes her side and then I have to get a lawyer, then that's where things get a little messy). Because while the guys on here might be able to give honest feedback on what may be happening, and it's social dymanics and understanding people which is girlschase related, it still is going a bit off topic into a legal matter.
b. Drama ( Personally I like when everyone is happy and there is no drama in my environment. But every now and again some male/female does something eg. cockblock, teases too hard, plays hard to get, tries to one up me on jokes e.t.c... And while I have good interactions with people 70% or more of the time, there's still that 30% of the time that things get dramatic. Yes it's work and these people are not friends. But I still find the need to understand the dymanics. (Or maybe I just need to avoid coworkers drama completely so I don't ever need to make a post on this? Which potentially means I isolate myself and act antisocial at work. But caveat, by opening up myself to coworkers, that's how I got a very good female friend years later who asked me to be the god father to her children. So it's 50/50 here.
3. Finances ( Aside from the obvious stuff such as "go to school, if I need to learn a skill eg. coding, then I need to actually find a coding forum for those discussions, if I need a business mentor then hire one... I think should not be on this forum. Because the focus is social interactions and getting women I think? But a part of being a strong man who gets what he wants in life is to have some knowledge of his finances. It does not mean he is rich, but handles himself well enough to live a life that allows him to bring women into his world. So how far is too far on this finances topic on the forum? Maybe I'll just avoid it 100% and go watch a Dave Ramsey show lol
Aside from these 3 main topics which are somewhat girlschase related, but also a bit off topic, I already understand the basic rules such as:
So yeah some guidance on this is appreciated before I go too deep into the weeds.
Thanks
PeacockMan
I figured this should go in off topic. I've joined the forum quite some time now but I am rarely active due to other obligations outside of dating. In fact, due to other pressing issues, I've put girls on the back burner. So I haven't posted in a while since this forum is called "skilled seducer".
It's like if I want a double beef burger, I don't think to show up to a Chinese restaurant, I go to Burger King or other fast food joint that sells burgers.
So before I get too deep in the weeds, I want to understand how broad of conversations can occur on this forum please? Here are some things that I'm currently going through which are partially social related, but also branches a bit into other realms.
1. Making male friends and keeping them ( I want to discuss this, but again the forum seems to be to get girls to chase you)
2. Social dynamics between myself and coworkers at work both male and female ( kind of in relation to getting better with communicating with everyone in general, but some of the topics may involve me going a bit into
a. Legal stuff (nothing confidential about the persons will ever be shared obviously, but if lets say I mentioned a female manager decided to provide a written documentation and I believe that is unfair... then I go into the dynamics a bit to see if this female is biased based on her body language, tone, or if a male manager takes her side and then I have to get a lawyer, then that's where things get a little messy). Because while the guys on here might be able to give honest feedback on what may be happening, and it's social dymanics and understanding people which is girlschase related, it still is going a bit off topic into a legal matter.
b. Drama ( Personally I like when everyone is happy and there is no drama in my environment. But every now and again some male/female does something eg. cockblock, teases too hard, plays hard to get, tries to one up me on jokes e.t.c... And while I have good interactions with people 70% or more of the time, there's still that 30% of the time that things get dramatic. Yes it's work and these people are not friends. But I still find the need to understand the dymanics. (Or maybe I just need to avoid coworkers drama completely so I don't ever need to make a post on this? Which potentially means I isolate myself and act antisocial at work. But caveat, by opening up myself to coworkers, that's how I got a very good female friend years later who asked me to be the god father to her children. So it's 50/50 here.
3. Finances ( Aside from the obvious stuff such as "go to school, if I need to learn a skill eg. coding, then I need to actually find a coding forum for those discussions, if I need a business mentor then hire one... I think should not be on this forum. Because the focus is social interactions and getting women I think? But a part of being a strong man who gets what he wants in life is to have some knowledge of his finances. It does not mean he is rich, but handles himself well enough to live a life that allows him to bring women into his world. So how far is too far on this finances topic on the forum? Maybe I'll just avoid it 100% and go watch a Dave Ramsey show lol
Aside from these 3 main topics which are somewhat girlschase related, but also a bit off topic, I already understand the basic rules such as:
- Don't be a drama queen (be positive)
- Help others where I see I am skilled enough to do
- Watch the rank of guys, because chances are a guy at a high rank knows his way well with women and social dymanics hence why he is there
- Be respectful (duh obvious) of everyone's opinion, even if they are wrong, nothing beats having grace
- Don't treat the forum like a therapy room of guys lined up ready to sing and offer a shoulder to cry on. Be a man and be tough or find a therapist elsewhere
So yeah some guidance on this is appreciated before I go too deep into the weeds.
Thanks
PeacockMan
