Screwed the pooch, is it possible to recover?

[Bansh33]

So Weeks ago I realised a chick that always served me food at a takeaway shop had become single. I got her fb but she wasn't showing signs of interest (but she had been in person). Anyway I screwed it up and have been too busy to go back and chat to her in person (and she never responded to my last msg on fb). My question is, I remember reading an article early on in this websites life saying that the only way to recover from a similar situation is to just let it go try other hooks and you could always try again in a few months time (essentially attempting to show you've got your game sorted), and while it's unlikely, something could happen at a later date. I'm wondering if anyone has experienced it work? And if so how did it come about?

Thanks in advance.

 

[Ergon]

Bansh33:

The girl might've been interested. If she replied your messages that's still interest. Did you ask her out at any point? If you messaged her without purpose then that's when she probably lost interest.

This is the article you may be looking for:
https://www.girlschase.com/content/ultim ... -girl-back

To answer your question, yes it's possible to turn things around with a girl you messed up with, I've done it, but it's not something to count on.

The method I know is take you mind off of her for some time. Don't see her for a couple of weeks or months (if possible, else just talk and interact with her the least you can). Improve your attractiveness and ability with women notoriously. Then let her see you flirting with attractive women, being popular with people, or invite her to a party/event where she can see that.

Then another day invite her to grab some food, drinks or hang out. Bed her by the end of your encounter… success?
Hopefully that resolves your doubts. Work on improving and win in one way or another.

 

[Bansh33]

Cheers for te advice Ergon,

This is the path I thought best too, good to know I figured that much out haha. Yeah that's the article too. Thanks again