Second dates? Duplicated issue

[weekendwarrior]

Hi Guys,

I really don't like second dates, I always aim to get the lay on the first date, but this doesn't always happen. My biggest issue is it feels like ground hog day and its basically the first date all over again.

I try to keep dates cheap, close, and convenient as recommended on the main site. This typically puts me in the local town which is a 15-minute drive away and leaves me with 3 pubs, 2 restaurants, 1 coffee shop and 2 fast food places. I rule out the restaurants as this isn't cheap and not recommended, I rule out the coffee shop as it closes far too early (6pm) and is a 10-minute walk from any of the pubs so not great for bouncing.

This leaves me with 3 pubs, and not a lot of scope for second dates. I can go to a different pub but its still basically the same date. I suggest just going for a walk in the summer but with the weather currently being cold and wet its not a great idea.

How do you run second dates without duplicating the first?

Thanks guys!

Warrior

 

[Fuck This]

Cook dinner together at your place. If you are insecure about cooking, go to your local full service market with deli and look at the Prepped meal kits that you just put in the oven. Even the warehouse store Costco has these.

Your "Cooking" dinner can be making a salad, doing rice in a rice cooker, whatever...While you two drink a bottle of wine.

 

[weekendwarrior]

Thanks @Fuck This my cooking skills are pretty good though I have a logistics problem. I don't have my own place and I don't think I want to introduce these chicks to my family on the second date.

I'm working on this, but until I get somewhere I guess I'm stuck repeating dates. One of the bar chicks have noticed me out with different chicks on different weeks, she didn't look impressed!

Warrior

 

[Fuck This]

I'm working on this, but until I get somewhere I guess I'm stuck repeating dates. One of the bar chicks have noticed me out with different chicks on different weeks, she didn't look impressed!

Warrior

My buddy ran into this. He used a English Pub as a first date location multiple times and the main waitress got a burr up her butt about him. He had to quit going there because she would start shit with him. I think it was mainly he was a bad tipper.