Seducing Sluts by Actin' Like a Chick (Kinda) [Video]

[Hector Papi Castillo]

I recently wrote an article entitled "A Feminine Man, Done Right, Can Be Wildly Sexy to Women" (Link - https://www.girlschase.com/content/femin ... sexy-women).

In the article, I go over how being a feminine man can actually work very well with women, despite much of the seduction community and Manosphere advising you to become masculine.

Although I was satisfied with the writing, I felt like the concept needed a little bit of clarity in regards to the more non-verbal aspects. So, I made a video where I go over a few strategies and techniques that you can use with women. And I know they work, because I learned them from the masters themselves - women.

Video Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yEv1ttilshA

Video Highlights:

00:30 - Being feminine doesn't mean not being dominate. Masculinity/femininity are distinct from dominance, as each sexual energy can dominate in different ways.

00:49 - Most men need to become more masculine, so only certain guys will benefit from this advice

4:00 - Feminine does NOT mean be a bitch.

04:20 - Passive feminine features and fundamentals versus active feminine behaviors and mannerisms

06:30 - Feminine fundamentals then ACT like a man (e.g., grab them by the pussy)

08:00 - Stoic is masculine, while playfulness and mischievousness is feminine

09:20 - Consider how a woman might seduce another woman. Use that to drive your strategy. If she takes the masculine role in the seduction, she'll be bad at it and chase you hard like a insecure, needy guy would.

11:30 - Playing hard to get is a feminine strategy, for instance.

13:00 - Smooth, flowing body language is feminine

13:30 - Femininity is receptivity. They draw you in.

14:20 - Backwards engineer how women draw you into defending yourself or explaining yourself by setting verbal traps (e.g., "What do you mean by that?") Or the famous, "Maybe."

15:20 - Play the feminine game too hard and she'll play back (and probably better). You still need to be the man and be aggressive when the time comes to close.

16:30 - How to open women in a light, feminine way

18:30 - The key is being feminine but still SEXUAL

Also, show some love to the Seddit post - https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comm ... h=5ad1ba97

Upvotes are very welcome

Hector

 

[jdoc]

Excellent article here, Hector. It's cleared up a lot of questions I've had had about masculinity and femininity.

Here are my thoughts on the topic.

Naturally, I'd say that I've got a fair few feminine traits about me. I've got somewhat of a petite, lean frame, with long luscious locks and a pretty face. Even with some facial hair, I still look like a bit of pretty boy. I'm short too.

On dates I've got a fairly masculine presence about me. I lead quickly and assertively, and I am dominant and aggressive with my sexual intent.

My niche is Asian girls (from Asia). I'm currently travelling Asia at the moment, and I've noticed that when I amp up my sexual aggressiveness with physical touch and my vibe, girls more often than not say things like, "Do you have a girlfriend?", or "I think you see a lot of girls."

Upon being a bit more feminine on my dates, occasionally utilising a girly, cute intonation of voice, shy eyes, cute facial expressions and kawaii smiles, my attainability soared and I seemed more relatable and vulnerable, rather than just another fuckboy. I think as long as she perceives me as a high-value man, these feminine traits can disarm and warm her up to me. I've can many girls tell me that I am girly and I look like a cat (feminine, cute and aloof). I've slept with many of those girls too.

I've also noticed that being feminine has been very helpful in eradicating LMR. When the girl is still on the fence about me and not yet accepting my kisses, I like to throw on a very sweet and girly voice and I am very gentle and feminine in my body language. I am very endearing and cute when eliminating her LMR. I like to laugh coyly when she resists my kisses. When she seems reserved or aloof, I sometimes outstretch my arms dramatically and throw on a cute face, close my eyes and say things like, "come cuddle me."

In most cases she ends up cuddling with me, and I lay down very cute and sweet kisses on her cheek along with coy laughs until she finally stops resisting my kisses. At this point, I know I have her, and I escalate into sex, sprinkling a bit more masculinity and dominance, and withdrawing a bit on the femininity.

In my experience, being cute, sweet and feminine when faced with LMR, works great for cute, shy Asian girls. And they seem to love it.

Again, this is a great article, Hector. It would be fantastic if you wrote more about this topic in the future. Femininity is a fascinating tool that has tremendous utility in seduction.

Jeffrey

 

[Big Daddy]

Do you really to spam one-sentence posts on 20 old posts on the same day with absolutely no constructive feedback or additional value like this? I think this post is very valid, and I liked his video as well as many others he has posted here.

 

[Inowtakethelead]

JDOC, THX FOR THE TIPS!