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First off, of course I did not come up with this idea. Personally I know it from @Chase 's articles and advice, may be floating around as advice from other sources as well. But doesn't matter, what matters is what we do with it!
Since humans learn best contextually and thus by extension from stories, I thought I'd share one I encountered in NYE.
Bit of a story from the other side of things, too.
TLDR; Always Be CLOSING!!
So I went out for NYE with my gay friend and HBCuba, and it was great because there is a strong vibe of sexual liberation in the air... I mean, one nympho, one gay, and one seducer going out together (latter is unknown to them for obvious reasons). You learn a lot by exposure. Honestly shocked by how much sex gays have - they can get to triple digits with quite literally no effort at all.
Gay friend doesn't know we slept together though lol. But nonetheless they have me swipe from HBCuba's Tinder, and I must say the vomit emoji is truly the best way to describe the options. Ew! I can see how our guys clean up massively if this is the competition. But obviously biased by small sample size (don't mind my STEM ass) since I just swiped left on like 25 guys, echoed by 'ews' coming from my shoulders.
Well, HBCuba wears quite possibly the skimpiest dress I have ever seen worn on an adult form. Bright colored, too. Highlights a lithe, curvy form and silky skin that leaves barely enough to imagination.
"Is this too small?" she asks repeatedly. My gay friend just smirks. "Oh, you won't be having it on for long, girl!", to which she laughs hopefully. You see her going out with intent for a good time.
So we head out to the NYE party we got tickets for and to make a long story short, she goes wild on the dancefloor, has a million dudes staring at her sleazily, and later finds a tall bearded guy she likes. They flirt, have their arms around each other, kiss... gay friend (gfriend) and I are silently celebrating.
And then after a while I look at them and HBCuba is locked in on the bar counter, leaning against it. Not too long after she is back with us.
"What happened?" we ask.
"Oh, he invited me to the bathroom. I don't do bathrooms," she says. For all her sex drive she has not done too many wild things - this is her fun exploratory phase.
But the point here is this. This guy, had her all around him, basically already decided she'd fuck him - if only he had invited her home.
Quite literally just this. No game required, no nothing, just say the words - "lets get out of here" would have landed him a great NYE (tried and tested buddy
)
Then she goes back near him (he is in hard autoreject) as he orders at the bar and posts herself up right next to him. And when he looks over, she gives the most BLATANT AI/IOI I have seen in my life. She smiles seductively and twirls her hair in an extremely obvious, alluring manner.
He does not bite, and slinks off.
300ft from gold, as the saying goes. (Actually I did not really know this saying, but @Skippy introduced it to me when I shared this story with him.)
I cannot help but imagine how many girls were (indeed according to our reads) not into us but it didn't matter - if you invited her home she would go with it not because you have her deeply seduced and enthralled... but she's DTF and just needs a guy to lead her forwards.
So it's not really a seduction tactic as much as it is a getting-laid tactic. Hookup vs pickup. Hence I post it in this General section. But at the end of the day... even with girls you have seduced, you have to lead things forwards! Unless you are so well versed in Tempt-and-Arouse game that you can make the girl pull you... but I'm not there yet so will not make any comments on it.
What was interesting also was how the story continued. She talked to another good looking rather muscular guy of normal height, and the longer they talked, the more gfriend made a motion to me of reducing distance between his thumb and index finger. "What does that mean?" I ask. "Small dick energy," he replies. LMAO.
True to form, soon after she's locked in again, and then back with us. She does talk to him as the night progresses some more but he does not make any move and loses his final chance. Even in his case, had he just taken the jump and invited her home, there is a non-trivial chance of her just shrugging and going with it!!
Of course, it begs the question how many DTF girls you find like this. Can't make many comments about night game since I don't do much of it; but even in daygame I have girls I pull at least to my closing location where I was pretty sure she would say no - but she went along with it anyway.
Anyways, thought this was a nice personal reminder of the seduction ABC basics - Always Be Closing.
So you may ask yourself now. Have you been inviting girls home before leaving and given her a chance to jump on to?
Cheers,
-Dev
Since humans learn best contextually and thus by extension from stories, I thought I'd share one I encountered in NYE.
Bit of a story from the other side of things, too.
TLDR; Always Be CLOSING!!
So I went out for NYE with my gay friend and HBCuba, and it was great because there is a strong vibe of sexual liberation in the air... I mean, one nympho, one gay, and one seducer going out together (latter is unknown to them for obvious reasons). You learn a lot by exposure. Honestly shocked by how much sex gays have - they can get to triple digits with quite literally no effort at all.
Gay friend doesn't know we slept together though lol. But nonetheless they have me swipe from HBCuba's Tinder, and I must say the vomit emoji is truly the best way to describe the options. Ew! I can see how our guys clean up massively if this is the competition. But obviously biased by small sample size (don't mind my STEM ass) since I just swiped left on like 25 guys, echoed by 'ews' coming from my shoulders.
Well, HBCuba wears quite possibly the skimpiest dress I have ever seen worn on an adult form. Bright colored, too. Highlights a lithe, curvy form and silky skin that leaves barely enough to imagination.
"Is this too small?" she asks repeatedly. My gay friend just smirks. "Oh, you won't be having it on for long, girl!", to which she laughs hopefully. You see her going out with intent for a good time.
So we head out to the NYE party we got tickets for and to make a long story short, she goes wild on the dancefloor, has a million dudes staring at her sleazily, and later finds a tall bearded guy she likes. They flirt, have their arms around each other, kiss... gay friend (gfriend) and I are silently celebrating.
And then after a while I look at them and HBCuba is locked in on the bar counter, leaning against it. Not too long after she is back with us.
"What happened?" we ask.
"Oh, he invited me to the bathroom. I don't do bathrooms," she says. For all her sex drive she has not done too many wild things - this is her fun exploratory phase.
But the point here is this. This guy, had her all around him, basically already decided she'd fuck him - if only he had invited her home.
Quite literally just this. No game required, no nothing, just say the words - "lets get out of here" would have landed him a great NYE (tried and tested buddy
)Then she goes back near him (he is in hard autoreject) as he orders at the bar and posts herself up right next to him. And when he looks over, she gives the most BLATANT AI/IOI I have seen in my life. She smiles seductively and twirls her hair in an extremely obvious, alluring manner.
He does not bite, and slinks off.
300ft from gold, as the saying goes. (Actually I did not really know this saying, but @Skippy introduced it to me when I shared this story with him.)
I cannot help but imagine how many girls were (indeed according to our reads) not into us but it didn't matter - if you invited her home she would go with it not because you have her deeply seduced and enthralled... but she's DTF and just needs a guy to lead her forwards.
So it's not really a seduction tactic as much as it is a getting-laid tactic. Hookup vs pickup. Hence I post it in this General section. But at the end of the day... even with girls you have seduced, you have to lead things forwards! Unless you are so well versed in Tempt-and-Arouse game that you can make the girl pull you... but I'm not there yet so will not make any comments on it.
What was interesting also was how the story continued. She talked to another good looking rather muscular guy of normal height, and the longer they talked, the more gfriend made a motion to me of reducing distance between his thumb and index finger. "What does that mean?" I ask. "Small dick energy," he replies. LMAO.
True to form, soon after she's locked in again, and then back with us. She does talk to him as the night progresses some more but he does not make any move and loses his final chance. Even in his case, had he just taken the jump and invited her home, there is a non-trivial chance of her just shrugging and going with it!!
Of course, it begs the question how many DTF girls you find like this. Can't make many comments about night game since I don't do much of it; but even in daygame I have girls I pull at least to my closing location where I was pretty sure she would say no - but she went along with it anyway.
Anyways, thought this was a nice personal reminder of the seduction ABC basics - Always Be Closing.
So you may ask yourself now. Have you been inviting girls home before leaving and given her a chance to jump on to?
Cheers,
-Dev
