seduction process with younger girls

[barneystin]

i’m in college so i feel like most of the content here and on GC focuses on women who already have some sort of sexual experience. however, for younger girls (think college age), i have a feeling that seduction requires a more obvious approach.

for example, i’m terrible at dancing so whenever im on the dance floor, i try to get girls off the dance floor after having conversation. i’ve come to realize that no matter how good the conversation is (even if the girl has greater investment in the conversation), she always says no whenever i try to isolate her from the dance floor. This is after i build rapport with her friends and even after asking permission from her friends. However, i feel like if i tried escalating physically with them, dancing, getting her horny and then tried to isolate, i would have much better chances of isolating (haven’t field tested this so feel free to call me out)

my theory is that younger girls are in an exploratory phase with sexual relationships so they need some concrete proof that an interaction will go in a sexual direction before committing to it

any thoughts on this?

 

[TwoNameGame]

i’m in college so i feel like most of the content here and on GC focuses on women who already have some sort of sexual experience.

There are a few dedicated campus gamers you can look for, like @Gorili. I too different campus game, but and not as skilled.

i’ve come to realize that no matter how good the conversation is (even if the girl has greater investment in the conversation)

Try seeding the move. For example, get her feelijg thirsty (literallly) and move her to the drinks.

my theory is that younger girls are in an exploratory phase with sexual relationships so they need some concrete proof that an interaction will go in a sexual direction before committing to it

Women know more than guys do.

Establish a sexual frame and she'll get the message.

 

[barneystin]

There are a few dedicated campus gamers you can look for, like @Gorili. I too different campus game, but and not as skilled.


Try seeding the move. For example, get her feelijg thirsty (literallly) and move her to the drinks.


Women know more than guys do.

Establish a sexual frame and she'll get the message.

I think this might be where i’m falling short. I usually try to establish a sexual frame through touch (holding her waist usually) and strong eye contact but i guess it’s not strong enough for chaotic nighttime environments

 

[Gorili]

@barneystin,

for example, i’m terrible at dancing so whenever im on the dance floor, i try to get girls off the dance floor after having conversation. i’ve come to realize that no matter how good the conversation is (even if the girl has greater investment in the conversation), she always says no whenever i try to isolate her from the dance floor. This is after i build rapport with her friends and even after asking permission from her friends. However, i feel like if i tried escalating physically with them, dancing, getting her horny and then tried to isolate, i would have much better chances of isolating (haven’t field tested this so feel free to call me out)

The biggest mistake that you're making, as you've correctly theorized, is having a conversation with them on the dance floor. Let me use a simple analogy. Do you wear a shirt to class? Do you wear a shirt when you're in a swimming pool?

The environment dictates what the best strategy is. When you're in a chaotic nighttime setting with deafening music, you need to match the high energy. If everyone is dancing wildly and you're trying to have a conversation about her pet goldfish, that's not going to work. Non-verbals and physical escalation are king here.

Additional resources on dance floor game:

1. Part 1 of a 10-part series from the main site: https://www.girlschase.com/content/ultimate-get-girls-dance-floors-guide-foundations
2. Common mistakes (written by @Skills): https://www.theskillsmethod.com/top-dance-floorclub-game-mistakes-video-blog/

i’m in college so i feel like most of the content here and on GC focuses on women who already have some sort of sexual experience. however, for younger girls (think college age), i have a feeling that seduction requires a more obvious approach.

my theory is that younger girls are in an exploratory phase with sexual relationships so they need some concrete proof that an interaction will go in a sexual direction before committing to it

Respectfully, this doesn't align with my experience at all. What is this "concrete proof" that you're referring to? When you are escalating the vibe via touching, compliance requests, isolation, etc. over time, she has a general sense of what you're up to, especially on the dance floor where is a strong existing sexual undertone. Then, it's just a matter of whether she is attracted enough to proceed forward.

In college day game settings, I have had girls "commit" even when I went extremely indirect (indirect opener, no touch, no sex talk, no compliance request, 5 - 10 min interaction). I would postulate that the majority of girls in college are way, way ahead of college guys from an emotional development and social skills aspect. Even if she's not actively meeting a lot of guys herself, she has friends and acquaintances who are, and intel from those encounters are getting passed on to her. I'm speaking from experience and from what girls have told me.

Anyways, just go through the links above, and you'll have a better understanding of dance floor dynamics.