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Bit of a theoretical mental masturbation esque post.
Think it’s general community knowledge that women tend to make decisions relying on how they feel in the moment versus more rational thought out logic.
This is why when you’re with them they’re more inclined to agree with your demands. And more easily turn you down when you’re away. Why they can seem to make irrational decisions, and why they seem to respond counterintuitively to logic.
Partly why they’re more suceptible to moving faster with you when you first meet them, versus later on.
That being said i’ve found it helpful to imagine an imaginary bar, call it emotional influence, that fills up when interacting with her, and slowly drains when you are away.
When with her via however you choose to influence her, you gain more access to her on an emotional level. Which means you gain more access to her decision making. She isn’t all that inclined to act on logic. Ideally you’re fueling this bar with positive emotions and she’ll in turn respond positively to your actions.
This bar can be influenced by other outside factors as well, such as other people, the environment, sudden vibe shifts, and other wild cards.
This is why it’s efficient to focus on vibing, escalation windows and generally trying to get something to happen when you’re with her. This is why trying to logically get her to agree doesn’t work well but creating high notes and driving her emotions prior to your requests works well.
On the other end when you’re away from her you can think of it as the bar draining. Your influence on her emotional state is subsiding and she is more inclined to logically asses you and her situation, and what you guy’s could be.
This is why making yourself socially desirable in her eyes and getting other investment from her can be key. It gives her something to fall back on and a reason she can rationalize meeting you again.
This is also why setting anchors and using callbacks is effective because you’re able to influence her emotional state via putting her back in the state she was in when you set the anchor. Making her more susceptible to your requests.
On the other hand when she is not with you, not only is she able to logically look at you, she’s still operating emotionally more or less. Which means that whatever is going on in her life is able to influence whether she will meet you again, for better or for worse.
Cat shit on her new carpet, so now she’s flaking on all her dates.
It’s why texting can suck, women hardly emotionally register with texts, guy’s too. Fake lols and Lmao’s has made her apathetic to texting because it is two dimensional and hardly registers emotionally.
She also texts all day and responds in an auto pilot fashion.
It’s why phone calls can work better because via use of verbals and tonality and general expression, you can work to gain influence again by driving her emotional states. Filling the bar up again.
It’s basic community knowledge that with women it’s good form to gain emotional relevance with her.
That being said I think its a neat trick to imagine that as a health bar of sorts that’ll influence her decision making for the better the more positively charged up it is.
And also being aware of the times when it takes a hit negatively and how it drains the more time she spends away from your influence. Effecting her decision making when it comes to the seduction in a way that isn’t helpful to your outcome.
Think it’s general community knowledge that women tend to make decisions relying on how they feel in the moment versus more rational thought out logic.
This is why when you’re with them they’re more inclined to agree with your demands. And more easily turn you down when you’re away. Why they can seem to make irrational decisions, and why they seem to respond counterintuitively to logic.
Partly why they’re more suceptible to moving faster with you when you first meet them, versus later on.
That being said i’ve found it helpful to imagine an imaginary bar, call it emotional influence, that fills up when interacting with her, and slowly drains when you are away.
When with her via however you choose to influence her, you gain more access to her on an emotional level. Which means you gain more access to her decision making. She isn’t all that inclined to act on logic. Ideally you’re fueling this bar with positive emotions and she’ll in turn respond positively to your actions.
This bar can be influenced by other outside factors as well, such as other people, the environment, sudden vibe shifts, and other wild cards.
This is why it’s efficient to focus on vibing, escalation windows and generally trying to get something to happen when you’re with her. This is why trying to logically get her to agree doesn’t work well but creating high notes and driving her emotions prior to your requests works well.
On the other end when you’re away from her you can think of it as the bar draining. Your influence on her emotional state is subsiding and she is more inclined to logically asses you and her situation, and what you guy’s could be.
This is why making yourself socially desirable in her eyes and getting other investment from her can be key. It gives her something to fall back on and a reason she can rationalize meeting you again.
This is also why setting anchors and using callbacks is effective because you’re able to influence her emotional state via putting her back in the state she was in when you set the anchor. Making her more susceptible to your requests.
On the other hand when she is not with you, not only is she able to logically look at you, she’s still operating emotionally more or less. Which means that whatever is going on in her life is able to influence whether she will meet you again, for better or for worse.
Cat shit on her new carpet, so now she’s flaking on all her dates.
It’s why texting can suck, women hardly emotionally register with texts, guy’s too. Fake lols and Lmao’s has made her apathetic to texting because it is two dimensional and hardly registers emotionally.
She also texts all day and responds in an auto pilot fashion.
It’s why phone calls can work better because via use of verbals and tonality and general expression, you can work to gain influence again by driving her emotional states. Filling the bar up again.
It’s basic community knowledge that with women it’s good form to gain emotional relevance with her.
That being said I think its a neat trick to imagine that as a health bar of sorts that’ll influence her decision making for the better the more positively charged up it is.
And also being aware of the times when it takes a hit negatively and how it drains the more time she spends away from your influence. Effecting her decision making when it comes to the seduction in a way that isn’t helpful to your outcome.
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