Setting Up Good Parties

[trashKENNUT]

Hi Guys,

There has been a few post recently that walks along the lines on how to set up a party, create social circle with hot girls. I was thinking it would be great for everyone to pitch in, give notes on what makes a party.

Not just a normal party, but a good one. One that doesn't result in fights, drunken retards and jealous girls creating drama.

Shall we create one topic of discussion here? I would believe this after college/university.

z@c+

 

[NarrowJ]

I don't think you can ever really guarantee there will be no fights or retarded stuff going on, but you can control somewhat who gets invited and who shows up (and who you let in).

We rented out the local gun club a couple times last summer. We played sand volleyball, had a bag tournament, setup tents and campers and had a couple of kegs of beer. Made a big fire as the evening wore on. It only cost us about $200 (plus a deposit) to rent the place and then another $150 or so for the beer. If you get everybody to throw in $10 it pays for itself easily. Only thing is, very few people are actually willing to stay the next morning and help clean things up.

NJ

 

[trashKENNUT]

NJ,

I don't think you can ever really guarantee there will be no fights or retarded stuff going on, but you can control somewhat who gets invited and who shows up (and who you let in).

We rented out the local gun club a couple times last summer. We played sand volleyball, had a bag tournament, setup tents and campers and had a couple of kegs of beer. Made a big fire as the evening wore on. It only cost us about $200 (plus a deposit) to rent the place and then another $150 or so for the beer. If you get everybody to throw in $10 it pays for itself easily. Only thing is, very few people are actually willing to stay the next morning and help clean things up.

I think it's possible to invite guy friends who are cool and have lesser tendency to fight. It's possible. I done that. Avoiding doing retarded stuff might be an oversight. I am just noting that "retarded" stuff means going way out of order/line, like getting ourselves into trouble with police. Apologies for writing it wrongly.

You are right, very few people are willing to stay and clean things up. and i do believe you forget to chip in that people are not willing to pay I am sure you know that as well. I shall add something below in the next few days.

z@c+

 

[trashKENNUT]

Some anacdotes

There's a few things you really need to follow. I set up parties a lot in the past and intend to do it again but i know a few things that is highly important if you don't want things to go awry and not your way.

Schedule

1)It's a weekend, Friday or Saturday.

Yeap, doesn't need much explanation

2)Plan in advance, A month and not more than that.

Don't plan too advance by planning three months ahead. People just take you for granted.

3)What the event is about

Tell people what you gonna do, or whether you want them to stay, what is the objective of the whole party.

Cool Crowd

1)You need COOL Guy Friends.

You really need cool guy friends. YOu really do. You need cool guy friends that...

a)that won't start a fight
b)that won't get jealous over a girl
c)that won't create trouble with police

and lastly, Won't "HIERARCHY" YOU over girls.

2)You need COOL Girl Friends to help you with girls

You really need cool girl friends to help you invite hot girls. Hot girls know more hot girls. So it is highly recommended.

Find Cool Girl friends that

a)doesn't see other girls as competition
b)well liked by everyone
c)energnetic or fun

So some few rules, Parties are not that hard to execute, but "Good parties" is harder, because you need cool guy friends and cool girl friends to help you out. It's a collective thing.

z@c+