Hi guys!
I have been dating a girl for 3 month and we recently got into a relationship. Its been going good. We were just outside walking by the beach and somehow got into the topic of ”hot girls” After seeing a few. She told me it is okey for me to look at girls as long as I tell her if I find a girl hot. For example if we are walking together and I see a girl with a nice ass she wants me to tell her that. she explained that she find it important in a relationship to be able to talk about that without any argument (guess I agree). I did find it weird she wanting me to tell her about it. So I then asked her if she expect me to think it is okey to hear about guys on the street are hot? She told me ”u want me to?” I said ”No, dont bother”
my question is WHY a girl would mention that ”it is okey for you to look at other girls as long as you share your thoughts”. Is there anything I am missing here? Lets say I tell her ”lets be Open about other people we find hot om the street” is that openess of any value in a relationship or Will it just bring negative consequenc down the road?
I need your outside perspektive, any thoughts/ideas?
Thanks
I have been dating a girl for 3 month and we recently got into a relationship. Its been going good. We were just outside walking by the beach and somehow got into the topic of ”hot girls” After seeing a few. She told me it is okey for me to look at girls as long as I tell her if I find a girl hot. For example if we are walking together and I see a girl with a nice ass she wants me to tell her that. she explained that she find it important in a relationship to be able to talk about that without any argument (guess I agree). I did find it weird she wanting me to tell her about it. So I then asked her if she expect me to think it is okey to hear about guys on the street are hot? She told me ”u want me to?” I said ”No, dont bother”
my question is WHY a girl would mention that ”it is okey for you to look at other girls as long as you share your thoughts”. Is there anything I am missing here? Lets say I tell her ”lets be Open about other people we find hot om the street” is that openess of any value in a relationship or Will it just bring negative consequenc down the road?
I need your outside perspektive, any thoughts/ideas?
Thanks
