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Fluxcapacitor

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@theodous dude! can we get some context? Day game/night game/social circle? Am guessing you didn't know her, the laughing and the touching is playful (to an extent) ya say she didn't talk to you, but did you try and talk to her? If you let her walk up, touch you and walk of you've missed an AI/IOI here and ya need to lead the approach.

If ya tried and she walked of she was seeking attention/validation but again situation an context is very important here to really know what happened dude!
 

theodous

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@theodous dude! can we get some context? Day game/night game/social circle? Am guessing you didn't know her, the laughing and the touching is playful (to an extent) ya say she didn't talk to you, but did you try and talk to her? If you let her walk up, touch you and walk of you've missed an AI/IOI here and ya need to lead the approach.

If ya tried and she walked of she was seeking attention/validation but again situation an context is very important here to really know what happened dude!

it was night game in a club

i was walking by and she laughs and calls me

and then she makes kino

than i was asking where is she from,she was giggling and speaking with me that she was from Serbia.she asked me if i new where is serbia

i couldn't tell it in English too her and she laughs more

than she talled me to leave her
 

Fluxcapacitor

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it was night game in a club

i was walking by and she laughs and calls me

and then she makes kino

than i was asking where is she from,she was giggling and speaking with me that she was from Serbia.she asked me if i new where is serbia

i couldn't tell it in English too her and she laughs more

than she talled me to leave her

Okay dude! now this puts it into context,

Night game will come with a lot of wild cards, she gave you an AI/IOI (no idea what she called you though? hey you, hey handsome, oi dick head all mean something different) the "kino" and giggling is a good sign so am guessing she didn't call you a dick head. She was playful with you and set out a game and you tripped up so she found it funny.

It sounds like she was seeking attention/validation which can happen a lot in a club. Again time of the night can affect this, she can shoot you down like this really quickly early on but be a lot more receptive later.

Depending on how she told you to leave her again dictates if this is serious or not. If its not serious ya folded and look weak and ya were compliant to her which puts her in control. She placed you into orbit and got bored. NOW remember she came up to you and invaded your space so telling you to leave is very very rude. Call her out on this shit, you can be firm or playful with this. I would only be firm with this if she was firm towards you.

"hahaha, go away and leave me alone"
"haha what? *smile and look bemused * you came up to me! you can leave whenever you want....
//Shake your head an smile in a bewildered/amused look - my pick up line wasn't that bad!

"haha will you leave?"
"whoah this is moving to fast! I've just met you an ya asking me to leave with you??"

Flip the script, tease, misinterpret what she's said. She'll leave if she really doesn't like you.....
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

theodous

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Okay dude! now this puts it into context,

Night game will come with a lot of wild cards, she gave you an AI/IOI (no idea what she called you though? hey you, hey handsome, oi dick head all mean something different) the "kino" and giggling is a good sign so am guessing she didn't call you a dick head. She was playful with you and set out a game and you tripped up so she found it funny.

It sounds like she was seeking attention/validation which can happen a lot in a club. Again time of the night can affect this, she can shoot you down like this really quickly early on but be a lot more receptive later.

Depending on how she told you to leave her again dictates if this is serious or not. If its not serious ya folded and look weak and ya were compliant to her which puts her in control. She placed you into orbit and got bored. NOW remember she came up to you and invaded your space so telling you to leave is very very rude. Call her out on this shit, you can be firm or playful with this. I would only be firm with this if she was firm towards you.

"hahaha, go away and leave me alone"
"haha what? *smile and look bemused * you came up to me! you can leave whenever you want....
//Shake your head an smile in a bewildered/amused look - my pick up line wasn't that bad!

"haha will you leave?"
"whoah this is moving to fast! I've just met you an ya asking me to leave with you??"

Flip the script, tease, misinterpret what she's said. She'll leave if she really doesn't like you.....
i think she was a lesbi :(
 
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