She doesn't stop?

[FS80]

Hey guys,

I am new to this forum, but not in pickup. I recently came across to GC and really like the input. Most of what I've read so far makes sense and underlines my own experiences. I did a lot of online dating for the past two years and now reached a point to get as much as 3 to 4 dates per week. This is good I guess, but I don't meet the girls who I want. Either they are not so attractive or have some strange personality. It's very rare to meet a nice girl and the competition of course is really high. That's why I decided to get good with daygame. I want to talk to and meet the girls who I like. I see plenty of them each day when I am out doing my usual stuff (I live in a big city). However, I am still fighting a lot with approach anxiety. I want to set three regular dates per week to go out doing daygame approaches and get better.

What I recently noticed is that some girls won't stop when I approach them from the side with a pre-opener (light tap on her arm). After that she won't stop and I still do my direct opener. Often she blushes, especially when she's very young, and we keep walking side by side. When I introduce myself she even gives me her hand. So, I try to continue talking to her, but when I feel it gets creepy I leave. In these cases I get the feeling she's somehow interested, but maybe can't handle the situation or I am not aggressive enough when I approach her. I mean she's not even saying something like she has a boyfriend or no time. It's just she doesn't stop and me doing most of the talking until I leave.

What can I try to improve? Thanks.

 

[Estate]

Online is very hit and miss. Really great girls often have social lives and meet guys where they don't need it. When they do, you'll have a lot of competition.

There's plenty YouTube videos of guys successful with day game, I think it's about being higher energy and getting their attention. On the street people are thinking to themselves and when they are approached it's usually someone looking for something like charity workers or a homeless guy or whoever. So picture yourself, if someone tried to stop YOU walking through town, wouldn't you assume they're going to ask for money or something and just keep walking unless they REALLY caught your attention?

I always feel like a better way for day game is not so much stopping random people in the street but just more naturally starting a conversation with someone. Like in a store, or queuing for food or coffe, or whatever. It's sort of more natural because people aren't rushing somewhere and it's a little more usual. People do it all the time.

In a big city too. Look to get involved in more stuff. Notice hot girls are always so busy? Do hinge they do! Instead of trying to flag them down on the street rushing somewhere. Be the guy who's rushing too to be involved in the cool stuff they are.

Nothing wrong with street approaches as long as your not creepy about it, but I always found it more effort than reward, there's easier ways.