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lux7

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I've seen a very nice girl 5 times, the last 2 with sex.

To make a long story short, I believe she might want to transform what we have now into a relationship and I think she might be falling in love with me at the moment (today she said her sister wanted to spend time with me).

I like her, she's very sweet and nice, but I don't think I'm looking for a relationship.
I really hope it's not too late to warn her because the last thing I want to do is to hurt people, and especially so when they're nice.

How can I can tell her this?

I thought like this:

A. I really like you, you're a great girl and I want to keep seeing you.

However, I believe that to avoid possible misunderstandings and future possible suffering, I should tell you that if you are looking for a stable relationship and a boyfriend, I might not be the right guy.
While I enjoy seeing you and spending time with you, I don't know if I want a relationship, also because at the moment there are good chances that I will move out of here before the end of the year
(which is true).

I hope it's OK with you and we can keep enjoying our time together.

What do you think?



What do you think?
And better in person when I see her next time or better not to waste any more time and go for it via message?
 
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Guccimane

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Re: She might want smtg serious: how not to hurt her -advice

Bro i think thats a great idea, or alternatively i would use womens favourite phrase of "we are just friends" but the sex element may make it harder to use but by all means you can try it. Im going to be straight though when a girl feels shes getting the backseat she'll always get a little mad all you can do is be a gent about it. If she takes it the wrong then emotional times for her.
 
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