She wants us to bring friends

[nino]

So I met a girl last week and the initial plan was to drink something on Saturday but now I got a text if I have time on Friday because that's when her best friend's got time, adding that she's very pretty (but we've never met so I doubt she's trying to hook me up with her friend or something). I'd know a friend I could bring but frankly, I don't wanna go on a double date. What could I write so I don't come off as a disappointed or needy?

What also came to my mind right now, what about me going out with both girls alone?

 

[The Tool]

To answere your question on what you could write so you dont come off as desperate or needy is to say "Hey (her name here) It turns out I do not have time on friday, I got asked into work how lame... Definatly will have to set up a day for coffee for the two of us. I'll let you know. (then dont text her for 2 or 3 days to not seem desperate. so then "Hey (name here) hope things are going well, I got my schedule for this week. hows yours look?" Boom got the date.

As to the date with the both of them. If it turns out it will be just you and the two of them at someplace intimate such as her place or yours then I would definately go for it. might be able to earn that 3 way championship belt (if you havnt read "threesome advice" in Advanced Id take a look) But unless you know forsure its just the 3 of you, or its not someplace intimate and instead its a sports game, party, ect I wouldnt go for it and use my example above.

Good luck my friend.

Cheers, The Tool

 

[Garrett]

Hey Nino,

Tool's right here. I want to add that you should NEVER meet a girl on her terms though... because now she's leading and you're the follower... not good! You have a better vibe/feel of the situation, if it's just to chat and hangout then I'd definitely pass. If you are advanced and feel you can pull off the threesome then you could give it a chance, but it's risky... So you either tell her no then do what Tool said and wait a few days, get her schedule, and get her out (I would personally opt for this), or you take the risk of potentially getting an awesome threesome or on the contrary, a dull night...

Best of luck man, if you've got a ton of options, you don't care about losing this girl, you're experienced, and you're getting a sexual vibe, then you could try to go for the threesome to build on experience. If you're not the most advanced, then I wouldn't try it just yet. The thing is, the girls are best friends so they may be open to it, but you don't want to go on their terms either, unless you want to get f-zoned! Also, if you aren't experienced, sometimes it's good to take a risk and learn from it. These are your options, now it's up to you to decide what you want and how you're going to go about this...

Best of luck, keep us updated!
Garrett

 

[Estate]

Hey man,
I figure either she's testing you a little to get things on her terms or she might genuinely be nervous and seeing if she can downplay it to a more casual drink by bringing her friend along.

Why don't you try being up front. Let her know that while you're sure her friend is great, it was her you wanted to see.

You take back control of the situation, you appear strong and unphased by what she said to you, and it means you need to have a "take it or leave it" attitude.
If she accepts then you're the man again and are directing the situation, you're being direct. If she doesn't accept then maybe she IS framing you as a friend, then walk away, do you really want to be her friend?

 

[nino]

Thanks guys appreciate the input. I used Tool's example and she immediately agreed on meeting on Saturday like planned.