Hi Begging Here
so I was working at a haunted house this year were I saw a beautiful girl working there as well. I taught she was cute but been a poetry because I only saw her briefly before I have to work that night. the second time I saw her I just got done with my shift. she was talking to another guy that was a little older. I talk to her briefly but that's about it. (but from the brief moment I thought she was into me). the third time we were standing outside the Haunt. we just found out it canceled that day. but that gave us plenty of time to talk and the chemistry was insistent. I deep dive and the conversation was flowing. afterwords I asked for a number she gave it to me and I left on my Uber (hindsight I should have flirted with her more and got the date first). knowing all that I knew it's a long shot for her to go out with me. That and age difference is big which makes me a little unease when she told me she is 19 I'm 29. But I decided to continue to pursue it to see where it goes at the very least I can learn from this.
so afterwards I gave her a text immediately after she gave it to me. saying:
Me: hey (her name) this is (my name) it was fun talking to you.
Her: It was nice talking to you as well.
the day after I gave her another text her another text.
Me: Hi (her name) just want to say good luck at the haunt tonight. also if you're free this week let me buy you some lunch if you want.
I knew this was a long shot but I give it a try. she text me back before 4 hours later. the text conversation went like this.
Her: Hey sorry (my name) I was busy all day. I literally just got this. How are you?
Me: I'm doing good sorry I can't be there tonight. Working at billington today. Do you have time this week to talk?
Her: I'm not really sure I'll let you
Me: Lol no problem I'll shoot you a text later in the week also good luck tonight.
Her: Ok, Thank you
to me personally I think I should just let this go and chop this up as a learning lesson. but also that's one of my biggest sticking points. girls just don't want to go on dates for me. no matter how good the chemistry is there's just won't do it.
Questions
1. based on what I told you what I can approve on?
2. should I keep trying with her or should I just let it go.
3. how do I get girls to go on date for me.
so I was working at a haunted house this year were I saw a beautiful girl working there as well. I taught she was cute but been a poetry because I only saw her briefly before I have to work that night. the second time I saw her I just got done with my shift. she was talking to another guy that was a little older. I talk to her briefly but that's about it. (but from the brief moment I thought she was into me). the third time we were standing outside the Haunt. we just found out it canceled that day. but that gave us plenty of time to talk and the chemistry was insistent. I deep dive and the conversation was flowing. afterwords I asked for a number she gave it to me and I left on my Uber (hindsight I should have flirted with her more and got the date first). knowing all that I knew it's a long shot for her to go out with me. That and age difference is big which makes me a little unease when she told me she is 19 I'm 29. But I decided to continue to pursue it to see where it goes at the very least I can learn from this.
so afterwards I gave her a text immediately after she gave it to me. saying:
Me: hey (her name) this is (my name) it was fun talking to you.
Her: It was nice talking to you as well.
the day after I gave her another text her another text.
Me: Hi (her name) just want to say good luck at the haunt tonight. also if you're free this week let me buy you some lunch if you want.
I knew this was a long shot but I give it a try. she text me back before 4 hours later. the text conversation went like this.
Her: Hey sorry (my name) I was busy all day. I literally just got this. How are you?
Me: I'm doing good sorry I can't be there tonight. Working at billington today. Do you have time this week to talk?
Her: I'm not really sure I'll let you
Me: Lol no problem I'll shoot you a text later in the week also good luck tonight.
Her: Ok, Thank you
to me personally I think I should just let this go and chop this up as a learning lesson. but also that's one of my biggest sticking points. girls just don't want to go on dates for me. no matter how good the chemistry is there's just won't do it.
Questions
1. based on what I told you what I can approve on?
2. should I keep trying with her or should I just let it go.
3. how do I get girls to go on date for me.
