shes resisting the desire to be a hoe

[Tareqborovic]

Hey guys, so theres this girl i started talking to and i havent smashed yet but we've still gotten a little physical with kissing and shit. Shes sexted me a lot through text and describes how she wants to fuck and all that. However she always ends with saying she wont have sex with me and she only fucks people she dates. I joke about it and tell her shes fighting the urge but she always emphasizes that we're not having sex. She clearly wants it and says really dirty shit to me but i know shes just trying really hard to not feel like a hoe so she checks herself here and there. It's really fucking annoying and im not super worried about it but I wanna ask you guys about how I can make sure I smash and how to really get her to say "fuck it". Give me ur advice thanks dudes

 

[andersen09]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E4cyxfsTylQ

Just rap her this song

 

[Raqimus]

Sounds like shes yanking your chain my dude, if she wants to fuck you she will find a way. Or at least try instead of dodging you. You may be coming off too thirsty. Also your response kind of buys into her frame. I'd just deflect it and say "whoa good thing were not daring, phew dodged a bullet" or something like that. With your response your adhering to her shes not gonna fuck unless she dates frame.

Or I am wrong it is like you said, have you tried inviting her over? or Inviting her somewhere? If so what have you said, her response etc.

 

[Bboy100]

Been in this situation many times. The girl wants to fuck, but she also has personal values/preset "dating rules" which conflict with this desire. Getting past this obstacle is pretty simple:

1. Communicate to her that you won't judge her. If she thinks you'll judge her in any way for being a dirty sloot for you, she won't do it.

2. Frame it as "just having fun" "trying new things" "having new experiences" etc. This reframes it from a negative mindset (i.e. if I fuck a dude I'm not dating I'm a slut which is bad) to positive (i.e. I'm trying new things, expanding my horizons, enjoying life etc.)

3. Get her out in person, take her on a fun date, and make a move. This one is the most important step. If you make a move & make it seem spontaneous, like it "just happened', she'll be 10x more likely to give into her desires than she will be if you're just texting her trying to convince her to fuck you. So quit texting her and get her out in person!