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Two short field reports:
1) At the bar to meet up with some friends, I struck up a conversation with a girl with blonde dreads. She wasn't as attractive as I usually aim for, but she was super cool and we had an interesting talk. Being a bit of a dick, I decided to tell her that I had to leave soon b/c I was going on a date (this one). (I'd already gotten her # at this point). She ended up reminding me to leave, b/c as I was leaving, my friends pulled me into a debate and I lost track of time.
I texted her the next day, she asked how the date went, I said
Me: "not well, lol, but I keep rolling! What's your schedule like?"
Her:"Well, I would like a reference # to call from your last date (b/c I don't think there was one :-/) and a statement of intent, first.
Me, after *almost* falling for it, but then remembering my training: "Is that how your ordinarily respond to offers for a date?"
Her: "No, I just wanted to see how you'd react to my shenanigans"
Me: "lol, I DO get shit like that from time to time!"
Her: "for real? Anyway, I'm free next weekend"
Me: "no, they are mostly joking. Let's aim for Friday."
2) quicky: I was walking my bike around campus with a huge grin on my face, b/c I am really enjoying the spring weather, but I was also running late for a meeting. A girl I didn't recognize walked by, stopped, and said
Her: 'Hi!'
Me: "Hey, what's up?!" (I stared at her, trying to see if she was someone I met drunkenly at a party & forgot about)
Her: "I don't think we've met, I just wanted to say hello." (She could see my puzzlement.)
Me (awkwardly): "Well, uh -- always good to say hello!"
I was so startled that I didn't realize I'd just been day-gamed, and I kept walking because I was in a hurry. Also, she wasn't super attractive, but I need to stop being so damn picky (I've passed up at least 3 girls in the past 3 months).
1) At the bar to meet up with some friends, I struck up a conversation with a girl with blonde dreads. She wasn't as attractive as I usually aim for, but she was super cool and we had an interesting talk. Being a bit of a dick, I decided to tell her that I had to leave soon b/c I was going on a date (this one). (I'd already gotten her # at this point). She ended up reminding me to leave, b/c as I was leaving, my friends pulled me into a debate and I lost track of time.
I texted her the next day, she asked how the date went, I said
Me: "not well, lol, but I keep rolling! What's your schedule like?"
Her:"Well, I would like a reference # to call from your last date (b/c I don't think there was one :-/) and a statement of intent, first.
Me, after *almost* falling for it, but then remembering my training: "Is that how your ordinarily respond to offers for a date?"
Her: "No, I just wanted to see how you'd react to my shenanigans"
Me: "lol, I DO get shit like that from time to time!"
Her: "for real? Anyway, I'm free next weekend"
Me: "no, they are mostly joking. Let's aim for Friday."
2) quicky: I was walking my bike around campus with a huge grin on my face, b/c I am really enjoying the spring weather, but I was also running late for a meeting. A girl I didn't recognize walked by, stopped, and said
Her: 'Hi!'
Me: "Hey, what's up?!" (I stared at her, trying to see if she was someone I met drunkenly at a party & forgot about)
Her: "I don't think we've met, I just wanted to say hello." (She could see my puzzlement.)
Me (awkwardly): "Well, uh -- always good to say hello!"
I was so startled that I didn't realize I'd just been day-gamed, and I kept walking because I was in a hurry. Also, she wasn't super attractive, but I need to stop being so damn picky (I've passed up at least 3 girls in the past 3 months).
What's your schedule look like?"