Should I call her or wait - update - fixed 2 dates in 3 hours lol

[Spyce D]

The girl i number closed yesterday called me after 3 hours ( after I had approached her) but I couldn't pick it up cuz I was in metro .

So after 15 minutes , I called her back but it got disconnected.

After 5 minutes , she called me back and said " hi , name " in a slow and sexy voice .

And the call disconnected lol.

I called her back but it showed switched off .

So , I just texted her " what's up "

Later after 2-3 hours.

Her : Hey "name" sorry , the phone got switched off .
I : thought so . Lmk when free to call. Her : tomorrow. I : sure , see you tomorrow .


Now , it's today .

Q. Should I wait for her call or be a man and call her myself without pinging her on text ?

Q. What are her chances of flaking on me ? ( I had repeated 6-7 flakes in the recent past , so feeling a bit anxious )

I hope I didn't hurry about getting her on call cuz she already had called me .

 

[gameboy]

Can't go wrong calling. Worst case she doesn't pick up.

 

[Kaida]

Should I wait for her call or be a man and call her myself without pinging her on text ?

Call her yourself

I was recently doing the same thing, expecting the girls to take initiative when they said they would, but I think it was Will_V that let me know that girls will rarely take the initiative to make a move like that, even if they like you a lot.

You need to lead. This girl seems to already like you.

Me personally though, I would have just transitioned to texting at least a bit to build up some more investment instead of waiting an entire day to call. Big chance for a shift in her mood.

Dont let that get you anxious though, you’ll probably be fine. Just think for next time

 

[Spyce D]

Can't go wrong calling. Worst case she doesn't pick up.

This happened rn .

Let's see if she calls back .

It's 9:50 pm here

 

[Spyce D]

Call her yourself

I was recently doing the same thing, expecting the girls to take initiative when they said they would, but I think it was Will_V that let me know that girls will rarely take the initiative to make a move like that, even if they like you a lot.

You need to lead. This girl seems to already like you.

Me personally though, I would have just transitioned to texting at least a bit to build up some more investment instead of waiting an entire day to call. Big chance for a shift in her mood.

Dont let that get you anxious though, you’ll probably be fine. Just think for next time

I did call her just now .

Didn't pick .

Let's see if she calls back .

I was under the impression that cuz she had called me herself , so no need to text .

 

[Kaida]

This happened rn .

Let's see if she calls back .

It's 9:50 pm here

Why so late lol. You didnt text her all day?

Dont be so cagey with your initiating/interest. I was honestly the same way (still kind of am) but I was shown that you should only really be pulling back interest when you see she isn’t reacting the best way to it.

This girl obviously likes you, dont waste time letting it possibly expire with all this waiting

 

[gameboy]

text her then, and ask if/when she's free

 

[Spyce D]

Why so late lol. You didnt text her all day?

Dont be so cagey with your initiating/interest. I was honestly the same way (still kind of am) but I was shown that you should only really be pulling back interest when you see she isn’t reacting the best way to it.

This girl obviously likes you, dont waste time letting it possibly expire with all this waiting

I didn't text . My bad .

But , as she didn't pick up the call , so I called a previous set of mine after 2 months ( the girl ....I went out with 4 times but couldn't kiss ) .

And within 2 minutes of call ..
She herself asked to catch up next weekend .

We had an hour long convo .

.

 

[Spyce D]

This girl is also interested .

Cuz 5 minutes ago , I texted " still busy with your music rehearsals ?

And she texted me 2 message rn .

Bye guys , gotta text

 

[Spyce D]

Texting is going decent , so far .

I am trying to be more grounded , less banter-y .

 

[Spyce D]

Date is being planned on text , boys
.

2 dates are set now .

 

[Spyce D]

This whole post has become obsolete .

Cuz I fucking fixed 2 dates in last 3 hours .

One is just day after tomorrow ( Wednesday )

Another is next weekend ( she told me to catch up ) .

 

[gameboy]

Way to go man Enjoy!!

 

[Spyce D]

@Kaida @gameboy .

Any idea on what to text a day before the date ?

I am thinking of confirming if she would come or not ?

 

[gameboy]

That's always a tricky one... I usually schedule dates in the evening, and will send them a short text around noon. Something like "See you tonight at 8pm, right?"

You may want to be a bit warmer and chattier depending on the vibe you have with the girl.

 

[Spyce D]

That's always a tricky one... I usually schedule dates in the evening, and will send them a short text around noon. Something like "See you tonight at 8pm, right?"

You may want to be a bit warmer and chattier depending on the vibe you have with the girl.

I have simply sent her " heyy " hour ago .

I will chat her up a bit then confirm .

 

[Cool]

I have simply sent her " heyy " hour ago .

I will chat her up a bit then confirm .

I may be a bit late on the reply but usually I'll send a confirmation text a few hours prior to the date along the lines of "Hey (name), I should be still good for around (whatever time you set up). See you soon ".

Once it gets closer, I'll offer up a little detail I may have left out for arrival of the date. "Headed out in 20 min. I'll grab a spot inside if I make it first." Usually helps to limit flakes but ultimately the groundwork from the initial interaction, connection, and attraction you have for one another plays a huge part too.


Cool

 

[Spyce D]

I may be a bit late on the reply but usually I'll send a confirmation text a few hours prior to the date along the lines of "Hey (name), I should be still good for around (whatever time you set up). See you soon ".

Once it gets closer, I'll offer up a little detail I may have left out for arrival of the date. "Headed out in 20 min. I'll grab a spot inside if I make it first." Usually helps to limit flakes but ultimately the groundwork from the initial interaction, connection, and attraction you have for one another plays a huge part too.


Cool

Thanks man .

Will use it in future .

This girl said she can't come cuz of some thing .

Anyways