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Jourdang29

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What’s up I’m pretty new here and just want to know what’s the ideal move or step to do next. I met a cute girl at a bar and we had a good time dancing, and made playful contact and touch. I got her snap as when i tried getting the number she asked me if i had a snap so i gave her mines she added me on the spot . We conversed here and there on snap. I just watched one of her stories making out with a dude. Mind you I’ll text her she’ll take a while to respond. She actually reponsded that night like 20 minutes after posting that story answering me back what I asked her trying to get logistics or information on getting to know her. So the question is should I continue pursuing knowing she randomly making out with this other dude on snap or just drop and keep it moving. I have other girls that I’m engaging as well but that caught me off guard. I’m thinking she’s a bit wild and for the streets but not sure if i should keep talking to her at all ?
 

Starboy

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What’s up I’m pretty new here and just want to know what’s the ideal move or step to do next. I met a cute girl at a bar and we had a good time dancing, and made playful contact and touch. I got her snap as when i tried getting the number she asked me if i had a snap so i gave her mines she added me on the spot . We conversed here and there on snap. I just watched one of her stories making out with a dude. Mind you I’ll text her she’ll take a while to respond. She actually reponsded that night like 20 minutes after posting that story answering me back what I asked her trying to get logistics or information on getting to know her. So the question is should I continue pursuing knowing she randomly making out with this other dude on snap or just drop and keep it moving. I have other girls that I’m engaging as well but that caught me off guard. I’m thinking she’s a bit wild and for the streets but not sure if i should keep talking to her at all ?
Yeah bro it doesnt sound like she's interested in you she just wanted another follower to her social media it's ok we've all been there. Especially if she posted a story of herself making out with a guy. Getting a number from a bar doesn't lead to much usually and you will get a lot of flaky numbers(unless you're more experienced and advanced). I mean unless you don't care about watching some chick you had hoped to make out with yourself do it with another guy drop her from your snap list or block her. Hard next. In the future dont give out snap. Tell girls u dont have it or dont use it.
 

Skills

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What’s up I’m pretty new here and just want to know what’s the ideal move or step to do next. I met a cute girl at a bar and we had a good time dancing, and made playful contact and touch. I got her snap as when i tried getting the number she asked me if i had a snap so i gave her mines she added me on the spot . We conversed here and there on snap. I just watched one of her stories making out with a dude. Mind you I’ll text her she’ll take a while to respond. She actually reponsded that night like 20 minutes after posting that story answering me back what I asked her trying to get logistics or information on getting to know her. So the question is should I continue pursuing knowing she randomly making out with this other dude on snap or just drop and keep it moving. I have other girls that I’m engaging as well but that caught me off guard. I’m thinking she’s a bit wild and for the streets but not sure if i should keep talking to her at all ?
No cause she owes you nothing, game her properly
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Vision

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She's clearly an attention whore if she's posting making out with a dude on snapchat... she's probably not banging him either... probably used him to get some ex of hers jealous.

He thinks he got somewhere but she's just messing with all of you at the same time, seeing what reactions she's going to get out of it.

As long as you know she's waving giant red flags in front of your face, do whatever you want to do, bro.

Just wear condoms and remember she's big into attention seeking, probably at the expense of the lots of dudes that she interacts with on a weekly basis. My guess is that she lives for it right now... probably makes her feel powerful and important.
 

Jourdang29

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She's clearly an attention whore if she's posting making out with a dude on snapchat... she's probably not banging him either... probably used him to get some ex of hers jealous.

He thinks he got somewhere but she's just messing with all of you at the same time, seeing what reactions she's going to get out of it.

As long as you know she's waving giant red flags in front of your face, do whatever you want to do, bro.

Just wear condoms and remember she's big into attention seeking, probably at the expense of the lots of dudes that she interacts with on a weekly basis. My guess is that she lives for it right now... probably makes her feel powerful and important.
She also lives about an hour away in a town that i work in but that’s about it just work. I figure too much of a hassle and keep it moving.
 

PalmaSailor

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You met her in a bar.

work on your escalation from real world meets.

you can’t bang her on snap - so work on your in person game, talking to them, escalating etc.

the phone number is only a method to get next to her in real life again.

avoid snap. There’s no point. You have to be in person to bang her
 

Noir

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If you're gonna go for it, then take her out and go for it. Don't overthink it.
 
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