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Of course. You should flirt with all women. (Exceptions might be female authorities and nuns, but even then...). Of course calibrate how much you flirt to the girl and situation.
What I think you're really asking is should you date girls in your class. To that I say YES, but you probably want to keep it to one at a time (especially if you go to a small school). Even if you fuck it up with every single girl in the class and they all look down on you the rest of the semester, you'll have gained valuable experience. And that's worst case scenario.
I'd advise being known as a cool, flirty guy, and keep it at that. Be discreet with whoever you go after. This helps save both your face and her face should things get wierd, communicates the right message, and allows you to go after other girls later.
And move fast. Not street game 5 minute number pull fast, but talk to her for a bit and get her number within two classes. I've gotten girls in bed after getting a number the first time I talked to them in class. This might not be applicable right away since it's freaking April.
Cool?
What I think you're really asking is should you date girls in your class. To that I say YES, but you probably want to keep it to one at a time (especially if you go to a small school). Even if you fuck it up with every single girl in the class and they all look down on you the rest of the semester, you'll have gained valuable experience. And that's worst case scenario.
I'd advise being known as a cool, flirty guy, and keep it at that. Be discreet with whoever you go after. This helps save both your face and her face should things get wierd, communicates the right message, and allows you to go after other girls later.
And move fast. Not street game 5 minute number pull fast, but talk to her for a bit and get her number within two classes. I've gotten girls in bed after getting a number the first time I talked to them in class. This might not be applicable right away since it's freaking April.
Cool?
Thanks ambiance
So to clarify, would it be okay to date (or fail with) multiple women at the same time if I'm not in the same class as them? I think I'd keep it a secret since I don't reveal a lot about myself. Or is it still too risky?
Ambiance said:
So to clarify, would it be okay to date (or fail with) multiple women at the same time if I'm not in the same class as them? I think I'd keep it a secret since I don't reveal a lot about myself. Or is it still too risky?
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You're in high school right? I'd say if there is a somewhat decent chance that the girls know each other or have mutuals friends, don't. But then again, things might be different in Africa (assuming that is where you're from based on your profile).
On the other hand, I do think it is a good idea to go through a "player stage" where you push things too far. High school is an excellent time to do this, at least in America, because you're leaving soon and any reputation you build up at school will hardly matter once you're off in the real world. So if you don't really care about any particular girl in class, you could go ball's out trying stuff, but just be wary that it will polarize your rep.
Ambiance
You're in high school right? I'd say if there is a somewhat decent chance that the girls know each other or have mutuals friends, don't. But then again, things might be different in Africa (assuming that is where you're from based on your profile).
On the other hand, I do think it is a good idea to go through a "player stage" where you push things too far. High school is an excellent time to do this, at least in America, because you're leaving soon and any reputation you build up at school will hardly matter once you're off in the real world. So if you don't really care about any particular girl in class, you could go ball's out trying stuff, but just be wary that it will polarize your rep.
Ambiance
I think I'll opt to be on the safer side, since I'm actually in my 1st year of varsity, so I'll be needing my rep for a while. But I may/ may not transfer to a new university next year.....I'll wait for confirmation.
Thanks ambiance
Thanks ambiance