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I saw @jc9's thread asking a series of questions about what to do during his interactions:
www.skilledseducer.com
He wanted to know openers, compliments, how to interpret certain responses, how to reach the hook point, then how to escalate the conversation.
A whole process, basically.
As a beginner, you've basically got two (2) options:
You'll have a hard time getting a complete process WITHOUT a book or program by just reading forum posts or articles or watching videos.
Meanwhile, you'll find books or videos too slow if you're chomping at the bit ready to get into action NOW and figure it out as you go along.
You can mix and match strategies once you've got some steam under you. e.g., pick a method, learn it, then do what you need to to get into action. OR get into action, stick with it until you reach a hurdle you can't get past, then go choose a complete method you want to learn and, buoyed by the experience you've now acquired, study it.
Just make sure you choose the right approach for where your head is at right now, and you'll be set.
Chase
Questions For Approaching Women
1. What's a good opener to just approach someone at a bar? Or anywhere, such as a store? I don't think, "Hey, how are you?" always works. 2. What are some good compliments that have succeeded in attraction? As in, I love the way a girl is dressed and I want a perfect compliment. Anything...
www.skilledseducer.com
He wanted to know openers, compliments, how to interpret certain responses, how to reach the hook point, then how to escalate the conversation.
A whole process, basically.
As a beginner, you've basically got two (2) options:
- Study a method and learn an entire process, then go out and start working to apply it. This is difficult to do using just articles or forum posts. If you want a WHOLE PROCESS, you are generally going to want a complete system to follow. I of course am going to recommend either my book How to Make Girls Chase or my One Date System (or both). Both are complete methods. When I was a beginner, the first thing I started with (the first thing in pickup I found) was Swinggcat's Real World Seduction. That's another complete method. The thing that having a COMPLETE METHOD does for you is it answers all these questions, and a bunch more you don't think to ask, so you can feel confident going out in-field, knowing that you have some idea what to do each step of the way.
- Just go get into action and iterate/study as you go along. The other option is to jump in with minimal prep and just start approaching. You can use the Newbie Assignment for this to give yourself a series of small goals to aim for as you get your start. Then read forum posts and Girls Chase articles on various stumbling blocks, situations, and sticking points as you encounter them. You can also take the Diagnostic Quiz -- that will assess your current skill level with girls and give you a skill-dependent handbook with a series of daily reading suggestions + homework to get you learning more and into action at the level of action you need to be at.
You'll have a hard time getting a complete process WITHOUT a book or program by just reading forum posts or articles or watching videos.
Meanwhile, you'll find books or videos too slow if you're chomping at the bit ready to get into action NOW and figure it out as you go along.
You can mix and match strategies once you've got some steam under you. e.g., pick a method, learn it, then do what you need to to get into action. OR get into action, stick with it until you reach a hurdle you can't get past, then go choose a complete method you want to learn and, buoyed by the experience you've now acquired, study it.
Just make sure you choose the right approach for where your head is at right now, and you'll be set.
Chase
