Should you stop calling it "a date"?

[Skjöldr]

Hey
So i thought about this. To me calling it a date is an AFC thing. It rings of formality, wining and dining, courting her in the bluepill sense. I have found when you call it a date when you ask her out she expects you to pay more and she makes you wait. Whereas when i have simply invited girls over to my place for easy dinner/drinks/a quick walk around my area (i live in a nice nature area) i get laid. I like the word "meet" more than "date". "Wanna meet..." "For our first meet..." Etc. The less informal it is the more chilled out and less expectant she is and isn't qualifying you as a provider to the same extent. She thinks "Yayyy a date like all the romantic movies i watched, i can't wait to be entertained and wined and dined all night while he tries to impress me"

Thoughts on this?

 

[Mr STIF]

Hey
So i thought about this. To me calling it a date is an AFC thing. It rings of formality, wining and dining, courting her in the bluepill sense. I have found when you call it a date when you ask her out she expects you to pay more and she makes you wait. Whereas when i have simply invited girls over to my place for easy dinner/drinks/a quick walk around my area (i live in a nice nature area) i get laid. I like the word "meet" more than "date". "Wanna meet..." "For our first meet..." Etc. The less informal it is the more chilled out and less expectant she is and isn't qualifying you as a provider to the same extent. She thinks "Yayyy a date like all the romantic movies i watched, i can't wait to be entertained and wined and dined all night while he tries to impress me"

Thoughts on this?

That's so true brother. 'Date'- puts unnecessary pressure on both parties to be on their best form. 'Meetup' and 'hook up' sound more casual and lay back.

I bet girls must have heard that word(date) being used by guys on them, a million times. You might just be given a harsh reception for the notoriety of that word.

But you can switch things up when asking her for a date by calling it a meetup or a hookup, it's quite seductive and makes you stand out from the average Joe.

I don't say: 'give me your number' when I want the number. Instead, I say: let's exchange numbers or contact info, let's keep in touch, let's exchange numbers and we can hangout some time, next week?e.t.c

I love to also ask for their whatsapp as an easy way to get their number. No facebook or instagram or twitter, just whatsapp.

Words are powerful and should be used with the right intention as they paint pictures in the mind of the listener.

Mr Stif.

 

[Skills]

Let's have a quick meet and great to see if the vibe is there, maybe coffee or a drink..

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[Skjöldr]

Let's have a quick meet and great to see if the vibe is there, maybe coffee or a drink..

Most effective way to ask women on a day

How to maximize your results seeing a woman that you just met a second time while minimizing her chances of not showing or flaking.

www.theskillsmethod.com

This summed up my thoughts basically