ok so im at a club. this pretty brunette girl nearby me opens me by asking if i'm having a good time. i chat with her for a few min. eventually her friends come by and distracts her and she leaves me. later i find her on the dance floor. i ask her to dance and we dance for a bit. i ask her to get a drink with me. i try to trick her into paying but she says she literally spent all her money. i pay and we drink. we talk, i deep five. she's a single mother, a smoker....but still really hot. she says she's never been with an asian guy and i say "you mean not yet!" and she says "yeah that's why i talked to you!" In hindsight I should have asked her to leave with me right then and there. But I kept talking for couple more min...and in that couple min she decides she really needs a smoke and goes to smoke with a friend. I get her number before she leaves. After she comes back I try to talk to her more. I take her to the dance floor yet again. I intend to ask her to leave with me after a couple min. However, in that couple min, her black friend comes up to her to chat her up. She tells him I'm cool and we introduce ourselves. I try to dance with her more, but eventually the black guy tries to pull her away from me, ripping my hand away from hers and nearly breaking my thumb in the process. She says "im sorry he's just jokin!" but eventually she's pulled away from me and they go to sit down. They talk for a bit. I go to use the bathroom and come back, she's of by herself. I try to talk to her more but a girl nearby her starts a fight and throws every drink and water in sight to the ground. She scatters. I find her in a min and try to talk to her more. At this point she tells me to go to the dance floor, drags me there....and then leaves me there to go talk to her black friend. Another guy comes up to her and asks her to smoke (they smoked together earlier) and she goes out with him. Its near last call. The black guy she's with leaves shortly after. I try talking to a few more girls but strike out. Eventually I leave but I don't see her or any of her friends upon my exit. Yeah, she seemed really into me but I really should have moved faster.
FR should've moved faster/cockblocked yet again
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so i looked up her fb today (she forced me to add her)....turns out that black dude was her boyfriend. they JUST got together on like thursday. so that explains why he was so mad. she also only introduced him as her "friend". now i don't feel quite as bad. but i definitely should have gotten her out of there sooner!
not sure if I should text her now though...should I?
not sure if I should text her now though...should I?
Ok bro, you're talking a girl that smokes, clubs, has a kid and get's fucked by black guys? Sounds like a winner! Why are you learning game? Do you want to pick up scraps or get the prize? Not meaning to offend you here, just making sure you see the whole picture.
Don't get blinded by her looks, find girls with value and bring them into your life.
Don't get blinded by her looks, find girls with value and bring them into your life.
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Tyme2k said:
I get what he you are trying to say here Tyme, but disagree slightly with the way you went about it. While smoking, having a child, clubbing and being in a relationship with a black guy aren't necessarily signs of a girl to completely avoid. I personally find smoking unattractive, but I wouldn't count a girl out of my list for doing it. Having a kid isn't exactly a crime either, and clubbing is a benefit in my opinion. Granted the combination of having a kid and clubbing is a red flag, but what does her being in a relationship with a black guy have to do with anything?
I was born and raised in the south, and I have to admit that I am somewhat wary of girls that have sex with black guys, but only hood rat types, and I would be just as concerned if the girl was fucking trashy ass hood rat white dudes. I'm just saying that listing "gets fucked by black guys" as a check in the run away as fast as you can from this bitch category might be a little much.
Jay I was trying to showcase the obvious negatives and how they are combined in this one girl. It's not necessarily that he's black, my best friend and main wing is black. I just have a feeling that a club type girl with all of these "qualities" is probably not a top choice in women. Where I live(incidentily where Scof lives too) there is a ton of interacial relationships like this, but there is also a ton of "hood type" guys and girls that knock up and get knocked up.
I guess for me when I see girl's that have kids I think "It could have been aids instead." That said I met an intelligent, gorgeous, amazing woman with two daughters. On the contrary I have met crappy moms that club instead of watch their kids, they sleep around with all nationalities, and really have nothing to offer.
I speak reality I guess and always try to point out to guys that yeah she may be hot and you're in the moment, but did you think about these things, the whole picture? There's more girls, they are hotter and can bring amazing things into your life. Abundance.
After reading it tho I did spew it out pretty quickly, maybe could have put less emphasis on race. I'm losing my filter and social conditioning, bear with me. I apologize if I offend anyone that's not my intention.
I guess for me when I see girl's that have kids I think "It could have been aids instead." That said I met an intelligent, gorgeous, amazing woman with two daughters. On the contrary I have met crappy moms that club instead of watch their kids, they sleep around with all nationalities, and really have nothing to offer.
I speak reality I guess and always try to point out to guys that yeah she may be hot and you're in the moment, but did you think about these things, the whole picture? There's more girls, they are hotter and can bring amazing things into your life. Abundance.
After reading it tho I did spew it out pretty quickly, maybe could have put less emphasis on race. I'm losing my filter and social conditioning, bear with me. I apologize if I offend anyone that's not my intention.
Hey Scofield,
yeah the moral of the story is definitely: Intel, Intel, Intel.
We like to believe that every woman we PU is like a blank canvas and we use our skills to get her. In my experience women are like a campaign. Especially the hotter ones. We don't know
• her history
• if she's with anyone now
• if she's know in the venue you're in
• if she has a baby ;-)
• ...etc
So it's not getting cockblocked in this case as it is asking questions and doing intel. You can always ask "How do you know each other?"
I wish I had followed this advice once also. In a club I was chatting up this GORGEOUS Korean hottie. Then out of the blue some Korean comes and gives her a drink. I went into 'cockblock' mode and tried to make the guy look bad.
I turned out the guy was her brother and he was just bringing her a drink.
If I had simply asked "how do you know each other?" it would have saved me the embarrassment and done better with the girl.
Live and learn ;-)
Dan
PS: Ask Chase about his episode with the drink and the club a few years ago. ;-)
yeah the moral of the story is definitely: Intel, Intel, Intel.
We like to believe that every woman we PU is like a blank canvas and we use our skills to get her. In my experience women are like a campaign. Especially the hotter ones. We don't know
• her history
• if she's with anyone now
• if she's know in the venue you're in
• if she has a baby ;-)
• ...etc
So it's not getting cockblocked in this case as it is asking questions and doing intel. You can always ask "How do you know each other?"
I wish I had followed this advice once also. In a club I was chatting up this GORGEOUS Korean hottie. Then out of the blue some Korean comes and gives her a drink. I went into 'cockblock' mode and tried to make the guy look bad.
I turned out the guy was her brother and he was just bringing her a drink.
If I had simply asked "how do you know each other?" it would have saved me the embarrassment and done better with the girl.
Live and learn ;-)
Dan
PS: Ask Chase about his episode with the drink and the club a few years ago. ;-)