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Strategies for Flying Solo Without a Wing Man 
Hey Guys,
This a guide for Guys Who Run Solo
Primer: I remember when I first started running and experimenting with game back in high school, a lot of my friends didn't have a clue about game. It was mainly a hit and miss process, they would sometimes get "lucky" or have oneitus and cling to a girl. We had tons of girls we were friends with, but I wasn't seeking friends. I didn't want to rely on luck, I knew that romance and dating was not something that happened by chance. The first thing I needed was some sort of direction to go in. I needed to first find out where the girls went and partied.
Finding Girls: Map Your City
I found out basic places to meet girls:
Mall, library, bookstores, coffee shops, concert halls, festivals.
The big note is the time of day I would go out and talk to these girl. They were really awesome, I'd get "lucky" get a phone number or a kiss. Every blue moon I'd even be able to take a girl to bed.
I need Fundamentals: I researched day in and day out about what exactly women wanted
I learned how to get develop a solid process: Just Dave's 4 Step Process
It worked, I was able to bring girls back to place and get intimate with them. I wanted more results so I would always continuously look for ways to up my results. I would test my openers and find ways beating women's tests such as I'm Cold! or Buy Me a Drink. I developed my own unique style and I found out my true potential!.
I developed and found rules for texting and better handled my logistics for setting dates. I was even able to turn some meet ups into instant dates. It was pretty awesome seeing how far I was coming.
Benefits of Going out Alone: Your Results
The thing about when you go out by yourself, you have more control over the interaction. You don't have to worry taking back more than one person. You don't have any hindering you except yourself, you don't have to worry about someone "stealing your girl". You can kind of ease back and take your time. If you have a girl you're talking and your friend doesn't you don't have to worry about jealousy. The number one thing to do when you go out alone, is to record your results. You also have your own place cool place to take them back too. Also keep a journal and play to win, and make sure to give your all each time. I normally set out to do at least 10 approaches each day.
Social Circles: Make friends as you go
Make friends with cashiers at grocery stores, bartenders, gym, and various other places. If people ask why you're out by yourself tell em, "My friends were being lame, but I still wanted to go out." It's easy to make friends when you're practicing being social and charismatic. You gotta get creative with openers, I asked girls how tall they were, I've even opened up sets of girls when I was so tired. What I'm trying to get across is it doesn't matter what the circumstances are, when you want to approach a girl you can do it. After you've done all the hard work and have been mastering your fundamentals. Girls are actually less intimated being approached by one guy rather than two.
Bedding Women: Getting creative!
You learn to pick up women on the fly give them interesting sex like car sex. You even learn to pick women up using technology at times. The most important is to remember to give women hard sex when you get intimate with them. The biggest thing is you learn to use all avenues of seduction to get the results you want. Whether that be online, apps, cold approaches, social circles, work hard and master your fundamentals. Your fundamentals will be your guide to landing girls on the day to day.
Relationships and Hookups: Getting girlfriends and lovers
When you've been hooking up with a particular girl and have been having sex with her, you can easily wrap her up into a relationship. IF you're not into relationships just yet, keep doing your own thing and meeting new women. Never stop approaching women and forgetting to bring new ones into your life.
Conclusion: You won't always have a wing man or someone to hold your hand. You have to learn to be able to stand on your own and make things happen in your life. At the end of the day, you have final say about what you want and you can do with your life. Live it to the fullest, find a style that works for you and keep developing it. There's a lot of great info in this post so take a look at the links. This way you won't have to rely on luck, but you'll have a refined skill. Hope you guys enjoyed this read.
Take care,
Just Dave
Hey Guys,
This a guide for Guys Who Run Solo
Primer: I remember when I first started running and experimenting with game back in high school, a lot of my friends didn't have a clue about game. It was mainly a hit and miss process, they would sometimes get "lucky" or have oneitus and cling to a girl. We had tons of girls we were friends with, but I wasn't seeking friends. I didn't want to rely on luck, I knew that romance and dating was not something that happened by chance. The first thing I needed was some sort of direction to go in. I needed to first find out where the girls went and partied.
Finding Girls: Map Your City
I found out basic places to meet girls:
Mall, library, bookstores, coffee shops, concert halls, festivals.
The big note is the time of day I would go out and talk to these girl. They were really awesome, I'd get "lucky" get a phone number or a kiss. Every blue moon I'd even be able to take a girl to bed.
I need Fundamentals: I researched day in and day out about what exactly women wanted
I learned how to get develop a solid process: Just Dave's 4 Step Process
It worked, I was able to bring girls back to place and get intimate with them. I wanted more results so I would always continuously look for ways to up my results. I would test my openers and find ways beating women's tests such as I'm Cold! or Buy Me a Drink. I developed my own unique style and I found out my true potential!.
I developed and found rules for texting and better handled my logistics for setting dates. I was even able to turn some meet ups into instant dates. It was pretty awesome seeing how far I was coming.
Benefits of Going out Alone: Your Results
The thing about when you go out by yourself, you have more control over the interaction. You don't have to worry taking back more than one person. You don't have any hindering you except yourself, you don't have to worry about someone "stealing your girl". You can kind of ease back and take your time. If you have a girl you're talking and your friend doesn't you don't have to worry about jealousy. The number one thing to do when you go out alone, is to record your results. You also have your own place cool place to take them back too. Also keep a journal and play to win, and make sure to give your all each time. I normally set out to do at least 10 approaches each day.
Social Circles: Make friends as you go
Make friends with cashiers at grocery stores, bartenders, gym, and various other places. If people ask why you're out by yourself tell em, "My friends were being lame, but I still wanted to go out." It's easy to make friends when you're practicing being social and charismatic. You gotta get creative with openers, I asked girls how tall they were, I've even opened up sets of girls when I was so tired. What I'm trying to get across is it doesn't matter what the circumstances are, when you want to approach a girl you can do it. After you've done all the hard work and have been mastering your fundamentals. Girls are actually less intimated being approached by one guy rather than two.
Bedding Women: Getting creative!
You learn to pick up women on the fly give them interesting sex like car sex. You even learn to pick women up using technology at times. The most important is to remember to give women hard sex when you get intimate with them. The biggest thing is you learn to use all avenues of seduction to get the results you want. Whether that be online, apps, cold approaches, social circles, work hard and master your fundamentals. Your fundamentals will be your guide to landing girls on the day to day.
Relationships and Hookups: Getting girlfriends and lovers
When you've been hooking up with a particular girl and have been having sex with her, you can easily wrap her up into a relationship. IF you're not into relationships just yet, keep doing your own thing and meeting new women. Never stop approaching women and forgetting to bring new ones into your life.
Conclusion: You won't always have a wing man or someone to hold your hand. You have to learn to be able to stand on your own and make things happen in your life. At the end of the day, you have final say about what you want and you can do with your life. Live it to the fullest, find a style that works for you and keep developing it. There's a lot of great info in this post so take a look at the links. This way you won't have to rely on luck, but you'll have a refined skill. Hope you guys enjoyed this read.
Take care,
Just Dave