Hey all!
Starting to feel like there's no single girls at my commercial gym (of age, at least...). Does anyone have tips for girls that throw out them being in "sorta relationships" as a reason to not move forward? Definitely could be my vibe isn't strong enough to hook them, but beyond getting my fundamentals sorted, I haven't been able to effectively counter this frame Disclaimer: Not trying to press girls who say they have a boyfriend/husband.
There's also a decent amount of recent/current breakup situations. I try to paint us hanging out as just relaxing and getting away from all that, but nothing has panned out yet. Any tips for these ladies?
Lastly, ran into "promised not to date and take time for myself" with the FR Gym #3 girl over text. No real idea how to maneuver that one effectively in real life or text, tips welcome!
I've stopped asking if they're single, letting my directness and teasing carry the day, and because I'm fine being turned down. I feel I can actually shine even more by being chill about being turned down and leaving the ball in their court, while a "not single" response makes further direct efforts dubious in a semi-closed environment.
Thanks all!
Starting to feel like there's no single girls at my commercial gym (of age, at least...). Does anyone have tips for girls that throw out them being in "sorta relationships" as a reason to not move forward? Definitely could be my vibe isn't strong enough to hook them, but beyond getting my fundamentals sorted, I haven't been able to effectively counter this frame Disclaimer: Not trying to press girls who say they have a boyfriend/husband.
There's also a decent amount of recent/current breakup situations. I try to paint us hanging out as just relaxing and getting away from all that, but nothing has panned out yet. Any tips for these ladies?
Lastly, ran into "promised not to date and take time for myself" with the FR Gym #3 girl over text. No real idea how to maneuver that one effectively in real life or text, tips welcome!
I've stopped asking if they're single, letting my directness and teasing carry the day, and because I'm fine being turned down. I feel I can actually shine even more by being chill about being turned down and leaving the ball in their court, while a "not single" response makes further direct efforts dubious in a semi-closed environment.
Thanks all!
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