Skill in Bed

[thejourneyman]

Warning: Personal and Physical information below


So, I just hooked up with a girl over the weekend and i feel like I have a pretty good vibe going on. So today, she texts me "tell me if the sex was good sex or bad sex". I texted back that the sex was pretty good and asked how it was for her. She took a while and texted back "It was polite and sweet. Be more wild? "

For me this is a very strange occurrence in fact its the first time a girl been so forward about sex with me. But yea sex for me is pretty physically sensitive, so I tend to go slower for the first couple minutes. Once I go into the quick rapid pumping motion I hit my limit real quick and I have to slow down again. I have Chase's articles and and incorporated more foreplay maybe like 5 minutes +? Do anyone have some tips/experience with this?

Also, this makes me think further.. that I have hooked up with a couple of girls over the past 2 months but I would always have trouble hooking up with them again. I try to set up a meeting through text but its just a lot of effort. One of Chase's articles suggested that if we present ourselves as sexual men (which I think I do since I tend to bed women within 2 or 3 dates) then we have to be good in bed otherwise women would be disappointed and might shift into auto-reject. I guess I'm actually that bad in bed ... man.

 

[Franco]

EDIT: Moved this post to the "Sex" board.

TJM,

I believe this is what you are looking for:

How to Make Her Orgasm Hard From Sex in 8 Minutes or Less

=)

- Franco

 

[thejourneyman]

will take note, and try to keep a more aggressive/sexual/ frame.


Now the question is... how should i start texting her later in the week? I feel like I came across not as sexually confident as I wanted to be in the text..

 

[Grand Pooba]

will take note, and try to keep a more aggressive/sexual/ frame.


Now the question is... how should i start texting her later in the week? I feel like I came across not as sexually confident as I wanted to be in the text..

It seems it's better off that you talk about this in person when she's in your room rather than via text, so in my opinion your text should be about logistics/when she is free to swing by again. When you're hanging out with her it would probably also do you good to start delving into what she likes in the bedroom...essentially, talk about her sensuality and sexuality with an open mind, so that you two can have an open dialogue about what wild things she's looking for and how you can provide it. She'll probably ask the same of you, so don't be shy ;-).

Remember that you don't need to start off talking about it immediately, but lead her into it i.e. "I'm glad you came to see me on Monday, and I'm glad that you were so forward and open about our experience," then continue.